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    Default Does she want us to be a real thing??

    So there is this cute girl I've dated now for 3 months since the school started, and just recently after texting for 4 hours night time I texted her I wanted to come over to her house the night after, but her parents were there. I told her she could just say like we are study partners and need to finish this project for the next day as an excuse but she replied with "I don't think that's a good idea"
    And then she wrote:

    "at the risk of sounding like a total girl, but if we would ever become a real "thing" they wouldn't mind you coming over, but we aren't so...sry hheehe"

    Does she want us to be a real thing????

    Afterwards I kinda complained how she needs to be more spontanoeus and I hate how everything has to go a certain way with her, which she replied

    "thats who i am and if you don't like it then we shouldn't hang out at all but I'm really tired now, so I'm going to go to bed cuz we have been talking for like 4 hours haha, goodnight"

    Anyway I want us to go back to flirting instead of staying mad at eachother, so the two things I'm wondering about is: What to do now? and "Does she want us to be the real thing?

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    Default Re: (High School) Does she want us to be a real thing??

    Seems to me like she's interested. You need to keep in mind that at your age women are going through changes too. You shouldn't have complained. What you did there was hand the power back to her and now she's in control.

    You need to grab that power back. Best way to tell if she wasn't to be a real thing is to wait a few days and not say anything to her. If she makes contact first that's a good sign she wants you in her life. Just Freeze her out.

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    Default Re: (High School) Does she want us to be a real thing??

    How is this giving her the power?!?!?!?

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    Default Re: (High School) Does she want us to be a real thing??

    Three months is more than enough to become already a "real thing" from my experiences with high school girls, you will KNOW if she's genuinelly into you , or just being nice in a period of a week or two [Max] with texting.
    & by the way that she replied to you it seems like she has been waiting for you to pull the trigger & ask her to be a "real thing" lol.
    but the thing you did wrong is complain & saying that you hate how everything with her has to go a certain way ... Girls don't react positively to this. You should always project Good Emotions & energy to others. You see ... the way a girls sees it if you complain, or react like that is:
    1. since you reacted to her more than she did to you... you're lower value than her
    2. since you complained & said you hated blah blah blah, then you must not be happy some aspect of your life , meaning lower value & turn off to a lot of girls.
    3. Requesting something like that & complaining because it didn't turn out your way... Lower Value ...
    the best advice I could give you as a high school PUA... is
    "Keep your cool, & make yourself seem effortless when you're running game on her, even if you are trying super hard, just make it seem like you're not) . anyway, hope to hear back from you bro. Good luck

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    Default Re: (High School) Does she want us to be a real thing??

    So what now? Apologize? What should I say to her?

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    Default Re: (High School) Does she want us to be a real thing??

    C'mon guys, need help here! What to do next?

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    Default Re: (High School) Does she want us to be a real thing??

    Like I said the best thing would be to act like it doesn't phase you. Go hang out with some other girls. You're lowering your value by complaining and then trying to save face. Freeze her out for a couple days. That means no contact. Don't text, don't call. You'll soon see that she'll want your attention.

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    Default Re: Does she want us to be a real thing??

    But the prom is coming up in not long, and I really want to go with her, and I'm afraid others asks before me, they probably have actually

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    Default Re: Does she want us to be a real thing??

    You are a complainer. The woman you are seeing told you she wanted
    something "real" but instead of asking her to clarify what she
    meant by the comment you just complained. Now you come on this
    forum looking for an answer and get some suggestions that you do
    not quite like so you complain some more.

    Here is the bottom line, you are responsible for your own happiness.
    Just because you complain does not mean that you are going to
    get what you want and you must be prepared for that. If something
    is important enough to you then say it without back peddling later.
    Complainers whine about life not giving them what they want by
    the means they want it. Adults tell others what they expect of them
    based on what is truly important to them but also realize that
    said others might have different priorities in life.

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    Default Re: Does she want us to be a real thing??

    Wow calm down now, you can't say you know me based from this post, this girl means a lot to me, and I just want the best advices, I don't mean to complain, I just want a deeper explanation and tips. So complaining to her was maybe wrong. I'm not looking for people to say what I am, or judge me, like everyone aspiring to be a PUA here I want tips. Not cool Shakeshi


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