Situation (explained in few words)
Were in a relationship with this girl for about 9 years, but then we broke up. And now I got relocated to a place about 2000 km away from ex's location. Need suggestion for a strategy how to get her back.
Duration since break up
Exact 1 year now
In case u want more details about the break up
(as per what I could figure out as the reason of the breakup):
1) I was about to get relocated to a very far location. So feelings were experiencing a little change in those days.
2) plus moving to far place from her, pushed me into beta male personality ( mistake i know..) and this even messed up the things
If u want details about the current situation
Just as her general defence mechanism (in the early days of breakup), she blocked me on Facebook, email, whatsapp, changed her mobile number (though I have her new number now(but that will soon be getting changed as she is expecting a relocation due to job, to a place 150km away from my current location, and here she will buy a new local number)
She is out of her rebound , since approx. 2 months now.
On my side, I have attained back my alpha male personality, plus even more polished now. Had been in no contact. Since year now(with mixed feelings rich communication from her side ocassionaly)
Need expert opinion on
1) how to get her back
2) how to show her my alpha male traits