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Thread: You've Attracted Them At College. Now What?

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    Question You've Attracted Them At College. Now What?

    If anyone read my last post a couple of days ago, they would know there is an 8 who has been showing a lot of interest in college. Its been a while now and she is always very playful when I do Push and Pull techniques and smiles quite a bit. And does whatever she can to get my attention. (Kicking me gently included) as well as loads of other I.O.Is. She is definitely interested.
    But according to FB, she's "In a relationship with *** ****". It could be fake and her way of stopping AFCs hitting on her (unlikely), her BF could be a bad one and is boring her or she is promiscuous. I don't know. But I can't do push and pull techniques on her forever.
    What would you do? Would you ask her out or get to know her better? I haven't been paying her a lot of attention and I'm thinking once I do, she won't be as interested. So, how do I ask her out in a nonchalant way? (If asking her out is the right option in this situation)
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    Default Re: You've Attracted Them At College. Now What?

    there are some chicks who do indeed have a bf and are absolute c0ckteases and just flirt 24-7 but never follow through past light kino, my mate got hooked by one of them, extremely similar to this scenario - she was at his work and the boss kept threatening to send one of them home if they didn't stop flirting, but she was loyal to her bf

    she could be one of them, they're not worth the emotional energy if she is, unless you wanna stay hooked

    you can always ask her friends, maybe build some trust with one of them first since it's a beta move, asking her directly would show alot of interest on your part, however one thing i'm curious of is she's never mentioned that she's already got a bf despite all the flirty and kicking you?
    if she hasn't, set up a date, kino her and use mystery's kiss close incase she says no she has a bf and you can say i was just asking (y)

    everyone elses thoughts are welcome here too (y)

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    Default Re: You've Attracted Them At College. Now What?

    She added me on FaceBook after I did Mystery's "How can we continue this conversation?" trick and it says about her relationship there so she probably knows I've seen it. And she mentioned her boyfriend once to her friend behind her when we were having a group discussion, but when we're alone she's never mentioned having one.

    You bring up a very good point about the possibility of her being a c0cktease, she certainly has the looks for it. Its 50/50. Maybe its because I hardly pay attention to her that is killing her, since she's probably so used to a lot of attention and that makes her come over to me and the Push and Pull probably drives her more nuts.

    How can I pursue this?
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    Default Re: You've Attracted Them At College. Now What?

    what's her eye contact with you like, really strong? if so then most likely it isn't, i'll give an example of what this chick was doing to my mates (surely the experts have seen this before, i only know of it cause my ex pointed it out 2 weeks ago when i asked wtf the chick was doing haha)

    pretty much this chick was kinoing each guy one by one and then dancing (this was at a party) and then they'd think she was interested and then she had 7 guys dancing around her and her mate while she didn't make eye contact with any of them, maybe a small glance

    i know this is day game a little different but it's important, set up a date, kino her and use Mystery's kiss close incase she says no she has a bf and you can say i was just asking (y) and you won't have to guess whether she's interested or not cause you'll be either kissing her or you wont

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    Default Re: You've Attracted Them At College. Now What?

    Thanks for your opinion and tips. Much appreciated.
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    Default Re: You've Attracted Them At College. Now What?

    Dude I was in this situation about 2 years ago. You can see my old threads. Ill make it short: she strung me along for a year+. Turned out she was playing me and other guys and had a brain and was not some innocent girl who I was "saving" from her AFC boyfriend


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