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    Default How to start a loving relationship.

    I hear alot of advice on how to "get girls" and if its mentioned that if you actually like the girl, you have a chance in hell of scoring with her. Why is that? I know it comes from the scarcity mindset, but after thinking and doing pickup for awhile, I want a relationship. I want to be in love, not just fuck. Any advice?

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    Default Re: How to start a loving relationship.

    The reason it's tougher to get a girl that you are really into is because (unless your frame control is really solid) she'll be able to notice that you're into her and will lump you in with every other lower-value male. But by no means is it the case that PU only works on girls you aren't into - if anything it's a method to facilitate becoming more and more into a chick as the relationship develops.
    (no pun intended )

    You definitely reach a point after a few months at pick up where you want to WIN the game and find that perfect girl. IMO there is no one perfect girl, rather there's several dozen types of people, and some types are perfect for others; every once in a while a "perfect pairing" occurs - rarely enough that the concept of "the one" occurs, yet common enough to have hope.

    One big obstacle in LTR game that isn't in all pick up is that if you get a girl close to an f-close, but then you slow things down because you want to get to know her, then she will probably have at least some ASD and Buyers Remorse going on (just because she knew that she was willing to sleep with you) and so she becomes a little more likely to flake if you haven't closed her because she doesn't have the same kind of investment as if you've f-closed.

    In short, it can be done. It's not harder, just different.
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