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    Roachie is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl at work, wont leave me alone.

    I know there is a wealth of knowledge her so please impart...

    I was friendly to a girl I work with for a while before I worked out she was a bit creepy and not really fun to hang around.

    I had no intentions of hitting on her and I assumed she understood this since she is so much older than me and not my type (*Read: not hot*) now since I have froze her out for a good 6 months she is trying to stick to me like stink on sh1t.

    I don't answer her calls or txts but then when I see her at work she'll say "why didn't you return my call,txt". She's been trying to get a lift home with me a lot since I did it a few times when it was on my way AGES ago and I've either played it off like I dont want to or I'm too busy, her last attempt I just shut down a day later in a txt without saying sorry or giving a reason just "No I'm not able to..."

    This was immediately followed up with a txt asking if I wanted to get a drink or something with her after work on Saturday? My plan is just to ignore the message like I should have done about the lift!

    She is leaving the job in a few months my plan was to just ride the freeze out till the end but she's getting more aggressive.

    I'm sure she has the hots for me, I want no part of it, whats the best method to get it through to her with the least damage?

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    Sean Flaherty is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl at work, wont leave me alone.

    Well, shes gonna be hurt because shes not gonna have you. I would just tell her there is no reflection on her, your just not interested. Or try to mention your taken. If she becomes obsessed tell her to screw off

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    ryuzaki21 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Girl at work, wont leave me alone.

    Oh my, This is a tough one. Had a similar experience at work too except that this colleague of mine held a senior position. In the end we both lost our jobs. Hence I avoid hooking up with women at work by as much as possible.

    Make it clear to her it is against your religion or moral code/platinum rule to hook up with women at work and it has nothing to do with her personally. After that avoid eye contact with her and pretend she does not exist or is a mere figment of your imagination. That is what I did since it gets annoying looking at the same face everyday. "Hi, good morning " "Do you want to come for lunch?" - it gets pretty irritating after a while trust me and everytime you look, there she is with those big glasses staring at you with a huge smile. Extremely creepy

    I could tell u a way to make her lose interest in you but there is a slight possibility that it could only serve to exacerbate the situation further. Or you could also tell her that you are seeing someone - it is unlikely that she would press any further after that.

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    Roachie is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl at work, wont leave me alone.

    Good stuff, relieved that you know what it's like ryuzaki21

    I'd rather not lie about seeing somebody else, but the rule against going out / hooking up with anyone at work seems like a good angle to play.

    Only problem I can see is that she might try and play it off as she only wants to hangout as a friend, but I cant imagine how awful an experience that would be lol.

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    Default Re: Girl at work, wont leave me alone.

    Honestly , im sure this has happened to alot of guys on here. Since you are activly TRAINING to be high value, naturally girls feel like its worth pursuing you. You are so non needy that she fucking just wants it.

    You can't be a pimp with a "heart of gold." In other words, tell her to fuck off. "Im too good for you" should send her the right message.

    I wonder if you just made this thread to get validated though, i mean its kind of common sense. Tell her "Im too good for you." She'll just think your an asshole and move to the next one

    good luck


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