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    Default where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    First things First, im 18. Ive targeted this HB 8 for a lil bit. I asked her out twice for coffee the first time she got nervous and kept saying i don't know, second time was same thing she didnt know i told her i aint wasting my time so cya and usually i joke around a lot and she told me she cant take me serious wth? Then i go and ask her out again, she walked into class and called her over to my seat and said were going out for some cofee she said ok with a sexy smile and blushed, she gives me her number and the teacher interrupts me! And sends her to her seat after class she i told her i would call when i can. Problem is i never did, the next time asked her and she said that she cant because her mom wont let her (shes 17 btw), then the next day she had to study wtf??? I told her shes a waste of time so cya!

    I was invited to a movie night by one of her friends, and she was there, the party was full of girlies, we didn't watch movies there just chill and chat, i was cracking jokes and telling stories gave the women a fun time, i took the chance to tell a couple jokes that wernt funny and she was cracking up. IoI? We were having such a good time all the girls told me to go cuddle with her.

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    Default Re: where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    Maybe that's why she hesitated at first because her ex is your mate...

    Notice how when she was in a group she was more comfortable with you?

    It's always a good idea to when you make a date make it sound as pure and innocent as u can...

    Set the rules

    Invite her our as a group... Few of her friends few of yours maybe to cinema say...

    It's less intimidating because if it was just the two of you, your intentions would be clear.

    It's like shouting "I LIKE YOU...AND WANT YOU!" lol

    Her ASD are up she's thinking of every possible situation that may arise and trying to figure out what your desire is....

    She may sense you like her but girls have it programmed into them that we just want SEX.


    Here what you did well

    You met her in a group... A group of her friends... In an intimate situation.
    You connected and DVH with all her friends. ITs like that old spice girls song...
    "if ya wanna be my lover you gotta get with my friends"

    You gained her friends approval and they gave her the green flag or light whatever lol

    Then she got so comfortable in front of you she showed you a vulnerable side of herself (in her PJ's) horray for boobies ^_^

    Now all you had to do is isolate her. As soon as you get 3 IOI's your good to go.

    You should have taken her by the hand and lead her somewhere private to "talk"

    Rest is up to you unless you get stuck.




    You gotta learn to read how women think... It's not easy. When ever you talk to her think what you motives are... Why your talking to her because she will. Try and think positive and be interesting in her...


    You said you didn't know if she wanted to date or just screw... Well ask yaself first what do you want? Then go get it but as I said she will be able to sense what your intent is...

    Hope this all helps

    Chappy ^_^

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    Default Re: where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    Even though i try my best, every women comes with stress ha. Idk she makes me kinda wanna date. Ill invite to another group hang out.. I have no idea how to isolate, grab her hand take her somewhere private kino and say some bull, thas all i got

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    Default Re: where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sean Flaherty View Post
    Even though i try my best, every women comes with stress ha. Idk she makes me kinda wanna date. Ill invite to another group hang out.. I have no idea how to isolate, grab her hand take her somewhere private kino and say some bull, thas all i got

    Sounds good to me man...

    If ya in a group it'll be more comfortable... you can start to Kino escalate with some Subtle Kino


    No one else Knows

    Sit next to her and occasionally knock her leg with yours by accident at first... or brush ya hand against her leg or arm...

    she'll probably ignore the first one or two think it was a mistake... but then do it again and catch her eye an smirk...

    If she smiles back its on...

    Its a secret inside joke between you two... a private game.

    Brush her leg again on purpose or her hand and see if she starts to join in... if she does DUDE HUGE IOI!!!!! lol

    thats a subtle way to get into kino...

    isolate

    Now if you've been touching her this whole time stop half way through and do this that way it would have interrupted the private fun you two had and she'll be sad its over...

    It all depends on where you're hanging out... it Could be

    1. At someones house
    2. Cinema
    3. Restaurant
    4. Bar
    5. The Park

    regardless you can say

    "I'm gonna get (Something, could be anything lets say for this example) "a drink" does anyone else want one...?"

    Get up as if you gonna leave....

    Thats when you don't offer her to come with you... But tell her

    "Give me a hand?

    She hasn't been given an option you;ve commanded her and if you were just playing with each others legs and hands and suddenly stopped she'll want more and just follow you.



    Now you gotta decide where you wanna take it from there brother...

    Do you wanna kiss her? If so i can help you move towards that goal....


    If you rather take the opportunity to DHV tell her stories and get to know her you can do that and i can help you towards that goal...


    it all depends on what you want....


    NEVER HAVE THE MIND SET OF LETS JUST SEE WHAT HAPPEN

    Always have ya goal in mind and reach for that... Women like a Man who knows what he wants and then gets it...

    hope this helps keep me updated

    Chappy ^_^

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    Default Re: where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    Fo sho man ill keep you updated, honestly i wanna date, but i feel itll he awkward if we date and hang with my pal, would it he a good idea i just he direct.

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    Default Re: where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    Once you get ya IOI's your good to go.

    Go for it. Whether it be a kiss or asking her to be ya GF.
    "If you want it.. It'll cost you"

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    Default Re: where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    Aight fo sho fo sho, i needa plan dis out. If it aint too much trouble gimme some ideas, ill do almost anything

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    Default Re: where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    Ideas for what? How to Kiss her or ask her to be yours?
    "If you want it.. It'll cost you"

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    Default Re: where do I go wrong? Or is it her problem?

    Both, last time i dated i asked her to be my gf then pulled a kiss. But i feel a little chumpy saying want to be my girlfriend? idk probably its still a good id for the hellvof it


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