Hey guys, so since I posted last a month or two ago, I've now been dating a great girl (officially bf/gf dating). Id say a 9.5-10 (have to help keep other guys off her when were out constantly) and we get along great. Really want to put time into this and see where it goes.
Now I've been in many types of relationships, including those where I became "clingy" myself because I liked them so much, and ones where I had a stage 5 clinger GF that I had to shake.
My question today is for advice on how to keep MYSELF from acting needy/clingy with this girl, because I've already felt it a little, and don't want to shoot myself in the foot as I've done before in the past. Now let me note that we've talked about availablity between the two of us, and I am not looking to hang out every night of the week etc yet. We are both busy people. However the following example made me secretly a little upset yesterday:
Example: Its now Monday night, I'm at her house. I've seen her for the past 3 days straight, her sleeping over 3 nights, going out in a group, hanging out just the two of us, all that good stuff. Great weekend.
We got to the topic of when we would see each other next, and basically it came up that it probably woudn't be till next Saturday night. 5 days. Reason being that two nights she works, 2 nights she's going to be hanging out with some girlfriends, and Friday she's going out with her mother to a concert.
Dosn't seem like such a big deal right? But I guess I was just a little dissapointed that one of those 2 nights that she has plans with girlfriends she didn't think of the two of us getting together to break the week up. Now like I said I don't want to hang out every night, but in a situation like this where she's tecnically available a night or two and we don't hang out for a week, kind of upset me.
I have not expressed this feeling to her and bit my lip, but a good part of me wants to say something or ask about "why don't we hang out thursday..." (one of the friend nights). I know though that this is bad news. This girl is really into me, and wan'ts to hang out alot, texts me all the time, and even talks months into the future with plans, but I don't want to get sucked into acting needy and scaring her off.
What should I do? Am I in the wrong feeling this way? Should I mention something nicely to her? Or just forget it and do my own thing with friends this week, see how next week plays out? Long post, I know, thanks guys for the advice!