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    Default short stature, undesirable?

    I'm just 156cm. I'm from an Asian country. I can say that I am shorter than 95% of the adult men in my country. Women value tallness, at least not as short as me. So a short man is considered as undesirable by the public. Although my short stature doesn't bother me too much, I live happily most of time. But when I associate with a girl, especially when I associate with a girl with sexual intention, the concept that a short man is undesirable or inferior still somewhat affects me. I know that it is easier for me if I choose a short girl, but that's not my desire. I desire girls who are taller than me. But I'm afraid that the girls taller than me may think I'm undesirable because of my short stature. Objectively speaking, a short man is not less desirable just because of his stature, but socially speaking, I think a short man is considered as undesirable.(Do you agree with me?) Of course I can still insist that I'm desirable, but a girl may say, "You are very confident, which is good. But I still don't want a short guy, sorry." Or should I admit, "You're right,a short man is undesirable." How can I tackle this problem?

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    Default Re: short stature, undesirable?

    It is about frame control, I guess I'd be cocky about it, like "maybe, but you have no idea what I can do from here"

    Your height is only one par of your game. It affects you if you let it get in your head, get it out of your head and you'll see results.

    Actually even better, before they have a chance to play the height card, use it to disqualify them
    "you're pretty funny, too bad I'm looking for a shorter girl". I think that's your best bet

    Read this for more on disqualifiers
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ier-guide.html
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: short stature, undesirable?

    If a girl blatantly says, "You're too short". What do you think I can reply with?

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    Default Re: short stature, undesirable?

    ok so im not a short guy.. about 5'10 - 5'11.. so i never used these.. but here are some responces

    you can joke about it like :
    "Damn, I forgot my high heels at home."
    "Come join me, weather is nice down here"
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!


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