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Thread: Date went well then didn't respond to texts

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    Default Date went well then didn't respond to texts

    Ok friday I met this girl online, HB 8.5, we met for like an hour then she had to leave cuz she was going to a basketball game.

    That was fri. I texted her sunday Said "Hey it was cool meeting you. How was the basketball game" nothing special just wanted to reinitiate convo. She didn't reply. The next day I sent "well I was going to invite you to a screening of a basketball movie but if you don''t like basketball nevermind ;P"

    Kind of push/pull. Now it's wednesday and she hasn't replied. I know it's probably something about my texts or something else I'm not realizing and there's little to no chance she'll get back to me. I've been reading a lot about persistence though and frame control. I'm thinking of sending 1 more text or even calling. With the frame that it's not even entering my mind that she's not interested because it's impossible. What should be my line here?

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    Default Re: Date went well then didn't respond to texts

    How did the date go well if it was only an hour long
    and then she had to leave ? You did not really tell
    anyone about what happened during that hour.

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    Default Re: Date went well then didn't respond to texts

    @chillout...First of all...congrats on number closing an HB8.5...that's an AWESOME achievement BUT...

    You have a VERY small window to seal the deal after number closing, I typically send a text out within an hour of meeting the girl saying, "Hey it's ____...save my number ASAP cause it's the most important one you're gonna get ;-)"...it may seem cocky to some people but the I can pull off the cocky/funny game very nicely when talking with women so they know its a joke. Waiting till sunday to text her may not have been the best move BUT if you wait that long...your first text HAS to remind her of the great time you two had.

    Before learning PUA I would have done the exact same thing you did which was the "nice guy" approach, to be blunt. If you made any inside jokes during your chat that would have been a great way to "re-spark" her interest in you as well...I see you tried to use basketball as a common interest but it needs to be something more enticing.

    At this point I would hold off on sending another text unless she says something to you...freeze her out for at least a week or so then just send her a text to meet up...which is an ENTIRE different subject to get into...PM me if you want more advice and I'll do my best to help out!

    Don't get discouraged...every experience is a learning experience!

    Good luck bro!

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    Default Re: Date went well then didn't respond to texts

    something went wrong on your date normally if a girl likes you she doesnt want to leave.
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