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Thread: Coming back from the grave

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    Default Coming back from the grave

    So this girl last night, she put me in the casket, nailed the casket shut and then put me in the grave! I need help coming back out.. Let me explain.. So this girl, lets call her "Anna" and her best friend is " Lacy " we are all teenagers and all the same age. I meet Anna and Lacy and at a party, Anna is shy to me but she's the one I really want, while Lacy and I talk all night and end up getting eachothers numbers. So I worked the game with Lacy and me and Lacy end up going on dates and fucking, like 5 times over a 1 1/2 months period.. Then I completely stop talking to Lacy and she becomes heartbroken (immature move on my part i know ) SO this was about a year ago.. Now I see Anna at a party and I talk to her and ask her out to a concert, I took her to a concert with me on the way there she confronted me about making Lacy cry and how she told Lacy she was going with me but it was because it was her favorite band. This pissed me off but I remained calm and explained that was a long time ago and I really didnt have those intentions. SOOOOOO we go to dinner before the concert and shes laughing at all my jokes, then we go to the concert and shes dancing on me the whole time so during a cute song I wentin for the kiss to be met with rejection and settled for a kiss on the cheek ( this pissed me off too) anyways she danced on me the whole night then eventually I took her home and tried to kiss her again and she said how she was still madly in love with this other guy.. (he cheated on her and she cheated on him) I didn't know what to say so i just let her go and said goodbye.. I need help trying to get this girl back!! What can I do? Or should I just move on..

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    Default Re: Coming back from the grave

    This pissed me off but I remained calm and explained that was a long time ago and I really didnt have those intentions.

    From this moment onward, unless there is a seriously legitimate reason (such as stealing or murder), don't react emotionally to girls. You've got to be non-reactive. Do that and you'll always get your way in the long run. That's a promise.

    You made the right move. When backed into a corner you've got to come clean. Be brutally honest, because women love and respect that.

    and she cheated on him.

    Aaand this is why you should let it go. You don't want to get mixed up in that. There's always plenty more girls, and plenty more of them aren't down to cheat. Go find one of them and you'll be a much happier man.
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    Default Re: Coming back from the grave

    Thank you very much sir, she actually texted me tonight and I've been laying some game on her, she's a lot more responsive/warming up to me now..

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    No prob, Man.

    It's your call. It's always your call. As long as you can keep a proper head space feel free to do whatever you want.
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    Default Re: Coming back from the grave

    I'll still add something because I always have to have a say. :P

    If she brings up what you did with Lacey you have to accept it. Meaning accept that it was a d1ck thing. But don't apologize for it. Explain it was a lesson learned. Also use humor. It's the best disarming tool. "Yea it was such an ass thing to do. Hope I don't do it again." *insert sly smile here* If she reacts just tell her to stop being so sensitive. That's such a classic line.
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    Default Re: Coming back from the grave

    hey zyzz, change that name :/ hes a dead legend :/
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Coming back from the grave

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I'll still add something because I always have to have a say. :P

    If she brings up what you did with Lacey you have to accept it. Meaning accept that it was a d1ck thing. But don't apologize for it. Explain it was a lesson learned. Also use humor. It's the best disarming tool. "Yea it was such an ass thing to do. Hope I don't do it again." *insert sly smile here* If she reacts just tell her to stop being so sensitive. That's such a classic line.
    Ty bro I like that way of dealing with it!!


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