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Thread: Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

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    Default Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

    Hey guys,
    This question is pretty general but here we go....

    How do you find your "niche" pickup areas, the places where you find the type of girls you want?

    Here's my story. I'm 28, I'm a "professional", I'm pretty career driven, I've grown out of college girls and bud lights.

    Personally I want to meet a similar girl. Similar age, similar position in life and obviously good looking and stylish.

    Wherever I go out, I just seem to come across the same type of girls. College students, immature, too young. And generally not very hot. I mean, they might be hot in that trashy college sort of way but that just does nothing for me.

    Where do you guys find your niche. I'm finding it hard to find the type I like.

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    Default Re: Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

    I know in my city we have different areas with different vibes to them that attract much different girls

    One for college students, downtown for club types, and uptown for the classier more educated career girls
    As well as a few others which offer a mix

    Just explore the city more

    I found my favorites
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    Default Re: Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

    Have you tried bookstores?
    Or, why don't you try finding business-rich places. You find a spot in your town that is surrounded by banks and offices and you find a coffee shop or a bar where you can go to.
    In my town there is such a bar, and women mostly come there on coffee before work, around 4, 5 A.M. And women that come there (women, not girls anymore) are smart, beautiful and they're success driven.
    You might want look into that.

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    Default Re: Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

    I can't add much more to whats already been said. I agree to find the women you want you must go to there watering Hole lol


    So If ya want career women you need to find where they hang and Sarge there...

    Coffee shops, Sandwich Bars, Bars in general but the ones near the businesses these type of women work for.

    Do you work with women? Ask them where they go for lunch if you can tag along on day....\

    then you would DVH because you walked in with a bunch of Women and all the other things Mystery has taught about being a Tribal leader....

    Never be afraid to ask...

    "I have the same thing for lunch every day i fancy something different and new....


    Either

    Do you know anywhere good?

    Where do you go to eat?

    I found this new spot i wanna try out... would you like to tag along.


    be careful with the last one... you don't wanna make it sound like a Date so try invite more than one person.


    Give it a try....

    Chappy ^_^

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    Default Re: Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

    Thanks guys,
    I'll put my thinking cap on.

    I think bookstores is not a great idea and fairly generic. Book stores tend to be more "intellectuals" and more students. That's what I'm trying to avoid. Not a lot of professionals spend their time in book stores or coffee shops, they might stop off in a Starbucks before work but that's about it.

    There are some bars around our Financial area. I
    m thinking maybe after work Thurs/Fri might be a good option rather than later in the night.

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    Default Re: Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

    I found that most cities have some type of professional womens association that meet monthly at a local restaurant, find out when and where and be there when the meeting ends!

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    Default Re: Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

    I'm pretty Naive, but maybe try going right into a fancy building and pull some routines on a receptionist! Of course you'd have to be super stealth and probably talented, but you could also get the women going in and out. just a thought

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    Default Re: Finding your "niche" pickup spots?

    See this is where I tend to find pickup a bit strange.

    While I'm all for pushing your own boundaries and comfort zone, there is also such a thing as overstepping what is acceptable socially and so on and the pickup community really tries to blur that line.

    Take a bar for example. It's perfectly acceptable to approach girls and be a little more out there. Guys do it all the time and its almost expected, but guys who get into the pickup community are often shy to begin with and aren't really in tune with approaching girls and need to get out of their head. Which is great.

    On the other hand... there are things which just aren't appropriate or socially in tune. The community tells guys to smash those social norms and I don't realy think its right.

    For example. I work in one of those "fancy" buildings myself. Believe me, they are VERY heavily guarded and watched by security whether you think it or not. It's easy for someone to walk into the lobby of my building but if someone were to come in, hit on the girls at the desk, you can be sure some form of company ID would be required immediately as to why he is hanging in the lobby. Same goes for hanging outside waiting for people. Even if you think nobody notices you, again, you WILL be noticed and surveillance will be pretty high.

    This is the area I find bad about pickup. By all means take your oppertunities, approach when you can, be a man. But don't put yourself in situations which are highly inappropriate and could land yourself in trouble or at least being branded "that guy".


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