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Thread: Meeting her friends, all blokes - how should I play it?

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    Default Meeting her friends, all blokes - how should I play it?

    So agreed to meet up with a girl I'm keen on on Saturday. Basically I want to keep attraction levels high and enjoy spending time with her which is kind of why I agreed to go. That and we only seem to get a chance to see each other once a week so didn't want to miss the opportunity.

    Now I don't really have a problem with meeting her mates and have found myself in the same situation in the past with little difficulty, buuuuut this time they are all blokes (though there are only two of them).

    How the fuck should I play this. Have already told her I have other parties to go to which is true so was going to turn up late(ish) after going to at least one party. Guess the biggest concern is that these lads might try and get all alpha, or be really flirty with her because of their good friendship or simply be judging me constantly. Basically wondering what the best way is to get them onside?

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    Default Re: Meeting her friends, all blokes - how should I play it?

    If you are just relaxed and outgoing then most guys are not
    going to mess with you or act too aggressive. In the rare
    chance that they should behave this way then do not let it
    upset you. More than likely she will notice that they are
    treating you this way and she will be annoyed with their
    behavior. Just shrug it off and do not complain a bunch
    if she brings it up to you later. Even if she starts heavily
    complaining about them when they are not around do
    not start joining in. It is one thing for her to rip into
    her friends but you will probably not have earned that
    right yet in her eyes.

    As far as them harmlessly flirting with her, should it happen
    I would not make a big deal out of it. Nobody likes the jealous
    boyfriend who tries to keep her away from all of her other friends.
    Chances are that they will not try anything too over the top
    otherwise she will notice that they are behaving strangely.

    One last bit of advice is not to try to be all "alpha dog" with
    them as nobody wants some new guy coming into their
    group who tries take over and tell them what to do.

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    Default Re: Meeting her friends, all blokes - how should I play it?

    Shakeshi is totally right... BUT just as a warning... some girls like having guys around just for the validation/ attention. I guarantee that she knows at least one guy in the group likes her.

    Just be careful she is not one of those girls. Leaving early is a good way to find out. I would suggest going to her on time and going to your other party after if possible.
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