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    Default How to deal with a trouble girl

    Hello all, new member here. A little info on myself, I'm a 25 yr old male, athletic build and got out of a serious relationship about 3 months ago. Been playing the field since then. Ok, onto the matter at hand, recently I met a girl through a mutual friend, she's beautiful, nice body and cool personality. However she has a bunch of problems, she gets drunk often, has a lot of family issues, has no car, etc. I've already slept with her so that's not the issue, I would like to keep her around but dont have it in me to help her with her problems. She talks to me about them, like trying to fish to see what I say, but I've even told her that I kinda hope to rekindle things with my ex. How should I proceed so I can keep her without having to deal with all her issues?

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    Default Re: How to deal with a trouble girl

    I'm afraid that's a package deal..
    She already feels comfortable dumping her problems on you because she built that "negative" rapport with you.

    So, unless SHE gets her life together, nothing's gonna change.


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    Default Re: How to deal with a trouble girl

    Hahaha as I was reading your response she texted me asking for a ride to work tomorrow. I kinda agree with you, once she feels comfortable telling you her problems and asking for help it won't stop. Any recommendations on how to improve my text game? That's kind of the reason why I came here in the first place. I do ok with girls especially one on ones but I feel like my texts are not helping me at all!

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    Default Re: How to deal with a trouble girl

    Check out my texting thread here.

    It should give you some good insight as well as examples.


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    Default Re: How to deal with a trouble girl

    Thanks a lot, a bunch of useful information on that guide, i saw that you made an app for it? Couldn't find a link for it however

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    Default Re: How to deal with a trouble girl

    Quote Originally Posted by blackdarth View Post
    Thanks a lot, a bunch of useful information on that guide, i saw that you made an app for it? Couldn't find a link for it however
    Thanks man!
    And yeah... I converted that guide into an Android app.
    So if you have a Droid, just PM me & I'll send you the link.



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