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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    I just want to be able to go to a bar, club, or any public place, see a girl I'm attracted to, be able to flirt and charm, get a number, get some action, and rinse and repeat until I find the special girl ill have a actual relationship with.

    Well you know you probably won't meet her in a bar or a club, but yes to the public place.

    That'll take you a little less than a month. Go get em', Tiger
    Ha ha, thanks. But I'm totally interesting in living it up with women, you know I was just worried that these techniques wouldn't help me find the special one eventually.

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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    I'm still having conflicts about this. I want to treat women with respect, and love them. But I don't know if I can achieve this without being the beta male. Or achieve this using advice from PUA or this forum and such. Please, I mean no disrespect, it's just I don't really want to BE a PUA. At least I don't think. What I want is the ability to enjoy my 20s and early life as fuly as I can when it comes to women, sex, and just enjoyment. You know, embrace my sexual male side, seduce and charm women, have Hookups, then finally get that out of my system so I can finally clearly see who THE ONE is without regrets or laments. However, I still want to maintain my love and respect for women.

    Is this possible?

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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    All in all if you have canned lines and routines... Its manipulation. But i told a girl that I gamed about the methods I used, she actually said more guys should read into PUA because it was so different from most guys she hung out with.

    Although i don't think all women will feel this way about it... Just know that they love to be gamed. Its exciting for them. Dont feel sorry for running game is my point here.

    The life your looking for is better then the one you have. I can guarantee at no point will you start reading books to become an AFC again.

    Good luck bro.

    PS. Make your own luck

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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    Do you know how many times I've almost left this site due to differences in PUA mentalities? Do you know what I've had to stand up for when everyone else was against me? Are you even listening to me?

    You'll never become something unless you allow yourself to become it.


    Man up and take some personal responsibility for your entity as a man. You're worried about needing to be beta when you're already being beta now. You're second guessing yourself.

    You are everything I am without the drive, the need, the purpose. You are who I would be had I not hit bottom, because it's only once we've lost everything that we're free to do anything [TD]. Most guys hit where you're at, they just don't stick around long enough to share the light with others. If you had taken the time to do your research you would have seen that I did.

    We Disagree: My Problems with PU

    You'll never know unless you start. If you disagree with something, SAY SO. It only takes a few months of pickup to realize a lot of this sh*t contradicts itself. If you don't stand up for what you think is right there's a good chance nobody will. If you want to see change you have to be change. Here's another example.
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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    I think it's ok to be you. Just a more confident socially aware you. Good luck friend don't give uo

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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    I just want to say that alot of the lessons of pickup helped me in ways i never thought... such as confidence and fighting fears. After i tried everything in PU, i learned that what i really needed were tweaks... i had it all inside me, but wasnt able to bring it out and use it as a body of knowledge. I didnt need to make drastic changes... just tweeks. Making new friends was a big one but i still have the old ones.

    Galileo : "You can not teach a man anything new, you can only help him find it in himself."
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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    I just want to say that alot of the lessons of pickup helped me in ways i never thought... such as confidence and fighting fears. After i tried everything in PU, i learned that what i really needed were tweaks... i had it all inside me, but wasnt able to bring it out and use it as a body of knowledge. I didnt need to make drastic changes... just tweeks. Making new friends was a big one but i still have the old ones.

    Galileo : "You can not teach a man anything new, you can only help him find it in himself."
    Im just not sure why I'm so apreshensive about making the changes, though ?

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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    Your a wuss bro... plain and simple. Its not a putdown... just a fact. We were all there. You just have not had the earth shattering moment that will force you to say screw it i must change.

    You prob dont need much help but your too comfortable in your ways now. Wuss lol ;-)
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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Your a wuss bro... plain and simple. Its not a putdown... just a fact. We were all there. You just have not had the earth shattering moment that will force you to say screw it i must change.

    You prob dont need much help but your too comfortable in your ways now. Wuss lol ;-)
    I'm not comfortable, though. Me I do want to change. It's just changing a behavior is hard.

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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    Aalso, what did you mean I might not need much help? In what?


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