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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    What I mean is that you probably have alot of the qualities you need to be good with women inside of you now. You are a man. You were made to be with women. You have qualities they like, I guarantee it. But you need to get them out and perhaps learn how to enhance them.

    Its like a meal. You have appetizers, a main course, and dessert. If you started with dessert, and lots of it, it might be fun but you would find it less satisylng. That is what you (and other guys) are doing. Your giving a woman what you THINK she wants (because who doesnt like alot of dessert?). Dessert = Attention, caring, sweetness, compliance, let her control... I mean who doesnt want that????

    But what you must learn is to change how you are putting yourself out there.

    THE MEAL (Your qualities) ESSENTIALLY REMAINS THE SAME... YOU ARE JUST LEARNING HOW TO PRESENT IT PROPERLY.

    So even though some girls swear they want to start with a triple sized helping of "dessert" you give them the appetizer, main course and then dessert. They may not want to do that, they may get mad, they may have to work more than they wanted to to get to the dessert.

    But in the end, they cant believe how much more satisying the experience is.
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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    You just have not had the earth shattering moment that will force you to say screw it i must change.

    You prob dont need much help but your too comfortable in your ways now.


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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    I actually did get a girls number who's in my class today . Talk with her a lot and felt I had good repport with her. She didn't have her phone on her , so I used that to bring up the request for the phone number. (She didn't like her phone and I was able to tease her pkayguly a bit about how outdated it was. When I did ask, however, she did seem to be a tad brought out of the moment and after she gave it she did indicate that her work might make it hard to get ahold of her, which was a warning sign of non attraction for me.

    However, I did send her a text so she got my number as well. And she did text back and we had a brief discussion.

    Really, I'm happy with myself because I had the balls to go for the number, but maybe I didn't build enough attraction. She's ok looking, but I mainly asked for the number to go out of my comfort zone and I felt we kinda hit it off a bit. Not sure if ill pursue it, but she was nice to talk to and I'm not taking it too serious.

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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    (She didn't like her phone and I was able to tease her pkayguly a bit about how outdated it was. When I did ask, however, she did seem to be a tad brought out of the moment and after she gave it she did indicate that her work might make it hard to get ahold of her, which was a warning sign of non attraction for me.

    Sounds like you could have teased an insecurity. Gotta be careful with that.

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    Default Re: Problems I am having with my progression...

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    (She didn't like her phone and I was able to tease her pkayguly a bit about how outdated it was. When I did ask, however, she did seem to be a tad brought out of the moment and after she gave it she did indicate that her work might make it hard to get ahold of her, which was a warning sign of non attraction for me.

    Sounds like you could have teased an insecurity. Gotta be careful with that.

    Good job though all around. See? You know what you're doing.
    My issue now is I'm unsure if I was really attracted to her or I just had decent rapport and tested to see if I could have the guts to ask for a number.


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