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    Default cold snap

    I've often found when I get a girl in the bar ready and willing to go home with me, the moment I get her out of the bar the cold seems to bring her back to reality, and she begins to reevaluate her decision. This isn't always a deal breaker but it's definitely a phenomenon, and so far as I can tell it hasn't been specifically addressed. I was thinking I might be able to avoid it by just saving the true physical escalation for the outdoors. The problem with that is getting her aroused would be more difficult in the cold. What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: cold snap

    Maybe re-escalate outside

    To be honest I rarely go for the first night close, I get a bunch of numbers and turn them in to MLTR

    But I have many times pushed a girl up against the wall outside a cold bar and made out with her hardcore, should re-ignite the flame
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    Default Re: cold snap

    Yeah I probably am too heavily focused on getting the one night stands. Lol my problem with getting their numbers is I never remember their names. So I have to look through every one of my contacts for a name that seems newish. It's like searching for a specific trailer trash hick in a haystack at a hoedown. I need to start getting them to write down their numbers and draw a self portrait beside it, like mystery and style.

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    Default Re: cold snap

    I make notes reminding me who to call and when

    The iPhone has a basic note app, so I jot down everyone's name or info in there later
    I also use it for all the bouncers, bartenders, owners I meet, etc. then I refresh quick before I walk into a bar
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    Default Re: cold snap

    that is SO frustrating... man I dunno where I read this from which Master PUA but the technique is to make keep her busy and confused so she doesn't have time to think.

    Call a cab or make sure he's outside. Tell her we leave and grab her hands get asap in the cab, all the while keep talking to her about other stuff and keep her busy OVERALL.

    There is a small technique but that's a bit trickery which consists on saying that there's an after at your place. Then when you arrive and you setup everything to ask some1 to call you to tell you that they're not coming, until then you would have built enough rapport to go further.

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    Default Re: cold snap

    Quote Originally Posted by Atlas View Post
    Yeah I probably am too heavily focused on getting the one night stands. Lol my problem with getting their numbers is I never remember their names. So I have to look through every one of my contacts for a name that seems newish. It's like searching for a specific trailer trash hick in a haystack at a hoedown. I need to start getting them to write down their numbers and draw a self portrait beside it, like mystery and style.
    I feel you man! LOL

    You know what I got a false number for the third time from a chick. Next I'll be adding them into Facebook BEFORE actually getting the numbers.

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    Default Re: cold snap

    Getting false numbers is such a bummer. Anyone got suggestions on how to avoid this?

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    Default Re: cold snap

    I really like that idea. Just keep her distracted so she doesn't get a chance to reevaluate


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