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    prettyboy89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Exclamation need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    OK HERE IT GOES....i have been out of the game for a few years now...n now that i have been single for about a year now i cant seem to get my groove back....n during this time that i have been single i have been trying to work on my self getting my life together with losing weight working on my style of dressing which is improving little by little and idk i guess thats not enough..but alot of women do notice my eyes n they always compliment but still i just cant seal the deal lol.....i have even tried dating sites like plenty of fish and skout cause work takes up most of my time n i thought it would be easy talking to girls online then in person but i guess its not that easy for me but dont get me wrong i hav gotten lucky on those sites twice lol not as much as i would want but still lol....n i work at an airport n the amount of women i see in there is like paradise lol n i would like to add that i can travel any where in the world n i want to put lil waynes theory of being wit every girl in the world to the test lol ...well i think that enough about my situation....im looking for any bit of advice that can just put me where i need to be and go from there....THANK YOU IN ADVANCE I HOPE THIS WORKS lol... OH n PS i still live wit my parents so bringing a girl home every night is not something i look forward to rite now lol

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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    I've been in your situation before and I know it's like relearning a foreign language lol. What helps a lot is confidence. Since you've been out of the game for so long women might sense a lack of confidence in your game. You know what helps me when I lack confidence?
    A plan and taking action to the plan. Get a solid routine you feel comfortable with and do it as much as you can. By routine I mean everything from eye contact to an F-close.
    How I went from 260 pounds with a solid B cup to 200 pounds with abs and 2 state championships?
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    prettyboy89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    Quote Originally Posted by vladkost View Post
    I've been in your situation before and I know it's like relearning a foreign language lol. What helps a lot is confidence. Since you've been out of the game for so long women might sense a lack of confidence in your game. You know what helps me when I lack confidence?
    A plan and taking action to the plan. Get a solid routine you feel comfortable with and do it as much as you can. By routine I mean everything from eye contact to an F-close.
    Yea i see what u mean n thats wat im goin to start working on....but what i find funny about my self that once i have a few drinks in my system im like chick magnet i pull girls left to right n my confidence is up....i just need to find away to that while sober n seal the deal lol

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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    I don't drink so I know what you mean. I've only taken a girl home from a bar a couple of times. I don't like doing it and I get turned off if a girl seems that easy.

    I number close upon meeting her. If I meet a girl at a club I will almost always break off once I get her number. I don't like to linger around bc I feel it kills the mood.

    Once I leave I ALWAYS text this, "I'll probably never call... just kidding, maybe "

    First date will either end up in a make out or nothing, which I'm totally fine with. Sometimes I get the feeling I'm hitting the breaks

    Second date escalates to heavy making out, groping, bj, or sex.

    Third date is a 90%+ sex rate. The fact that I went on 2-3 dates with a girl means that I'm feeling confident enough to close by then. That confidence comes with repetition and experience.
    How I went from 260 pounds with a solid B cup to 200 pounds with abs and 2 state championships?
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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    Try day-game this way there's no way alcohol can influence you during the day...unless you have serious issues which is highly unlikely!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    prettyboy89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    Quote Originally Posted by vladkost View Post
    I don't drink so I know what you mean. I've only taken a girl home from a bar a couple of times. I don't like doing it and I get turned off if a girl seems that easy.

    I number close upon meeting her. If I meet a girl at a club I will almost always break off once I get her number. I don't like to linger around bc I feel it kills the mood.

    Once I leave I ALWAYS text this, "I'll probably never call... just kidding, maybe "

    First date will either end up in a make out or nothing, which I'm totally fine with. Sometimes I get the feeling I'm hitting the breaks

    Second date escalates to heavy making out, groping, bj, or sex.

    Third date is a 90%+ sex rate. The fact that I went on 2-3 dates with a girl means that I'm feeling confident enough to close by then. That confidence comes with repetition and experience.
    yea i get the same way if they come off to easy it kills the mood....its good to hav a lil challenge lol....i went out last weekend wit my brothers n his friends n i decided it would b a good idea to leave my fone at my brothers house (which was very dumb on my end)...n i had to use my brothers to get the numbers for me n text them to me lol...most of the numbers wer wrong any way lol but i did hav a good time....n i hope u dont mind if i steal your texting line lol......

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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    Quote Originally Posted by pua_wannabe View Post
    Try day-game this way there's no way alcohol can influence you during the day...unless you have serious issues which is highly unlikely!
    i dont really do much during the day im always home my friends are always busy n they really dont like to go out much....i only go out when im in another state

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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    I suck at f-close if she's hb8-10. Then again, I'm not that kind of guy either. Don't get it twisted. I like to f*** now. lol. I'd just rather get to know them before hand over at least 1-2 dates. That's just me.

    Right now I'm struggling with hb8 and up. Must be the confidence thing you guys are talking about. I just got out of a marriage, so this stuff is like learning French all over again. lol. I think the other guy is right a/b learning a script and just sticking to it. Eventually you'll be asking where the coffee is and you'll get a number. that's what I did with some church chick 2 weeks ago, lol.

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    prettyboy89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    Quote Originally Posted by Cruze29 View Post
    I suck at f-close if she's hb8-10. Then again, I'm not that kind of guy either. Don't get it twisted. I like to f*** now. lol. I'd just rather get to know them before hand over at least 1-2 dates. That's just me.

    Right now I'm struggling with hb8 and up. Must be the confidence thing you guys are talking about. I just got out of a marriage, so this stuff is like learning French all over again. lol. I think the other guy is right a/b learning a script and just sticking to it. Eventually you'll be asking where the coffee is and you'll get a number. that's what I did with some church chick 2 weeks ago, lol.
    i hav been seeing this all day but i didnt want to sound like such a noob but wat is a HB8 lol.......yea it is a confidence thing i mean i just need to find that boost that im missing n like u said u can just ask where something is n u will get a number lol

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    Default Re: need help getting back into the swing of dating and picking up women

    Like I said, it's been a while. However, I think it means hot babe and the number is for a scale of 1-1-. 1 ugly 10 hottest chick in the world


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