Ok so I'm in need of some help on securing a date with a really beautiful lady I met at a club. Please forgive me for the long post but I think its necessary for you to know exactly what happened (to the best of my memory) but I need all the help I can get. I would like to state that my intention with this post is not to get advise on how to just bed this lady, but rather how to secure a first date and hopefully more dates after that. So please read my story and give advise on mistakes I made, what I should of done differently and also how to recover and secure a date. Here it goes:
I met some friends at a club last night and to my surprise there was a sexy, single lady with them. I dont like to categorize ladies but it might be needed in this case. This lady is easily a HB9. I've never had problems dating hot ladies but this particular lady out shines every single one of them. Introductions were short and we got chatting as a group.
One of my friends brothers, who I had just met, turned out to be a wing man that I never planned on having nor did I ask for, but it worked out great.
After a couple drinks I found a good conversation topic. It turned out that she is a twin and so am I. Anyway, we chatted about that for a while but its not a topic you can dwell on for hours and needless to say, it started drying up.
After about an hour or so,I started getting IOI's from her to the point where she asked me to go out with her and some friends the following evening. I accepted and she seemed really pleased that I did. Then she asked us all to dance, but having two left feet, I declined at first. I then made a huge mistake and let her know that for some reason I felt nervous around her. I didn't think that one through and felt like kicking my own ass afterwards. Anyway after a few drinks I was more at ease so when she asked me to dance again I accepted. Although I feel I cant dance to save my life, she however told me that I could dance. Possible IOI? Im not sure....
After dancing for a while my "wing man" did the unthinkable making it obvious, in front of the lady, that I needed to move in and kiss her. She didn't seem to disapprove but it put me in an awkward situation. We carried on dancing and a little while later, I mustered up the courage and went in for the kiss. She didn't pull away at all and in fact moved in closer to meet me half way.
We carried on having a good time, on and off the dance floor, and she kept mentioning our "date" that was set up for the following evening. She then changed the plans slightly and said that it was just going to be the two of us and no longer with her friends.
A bit later on in the evening I excused myself and went to my car to freshen up as the club was extremely hot and the last thing I needed was some funky BO. When I returned I noticed she was talking with a group of guys and I thought I blew my chances. To my surprise she walked up to me a few mins later and kissed me. The night came to a close and I walked her to their vehicle, while making small chat about the venue we would be going to the following evening.
I managed to number close and let her know that I would call her the following day to finalize plans for that evening. There was a mix up on my phone and I thought she tried calling me while I was closing applications and I cancelled the call, but when I looked today I noticed that she never called, but instead my phone had freaked out and decided to dial her number. Anyway I called her and she let me know she was home safely and she thanked me for a great night. I texted her and let her know when I was home safely and thanked her for the great time at the club.
Now the tricky part. I went against all my urges this morning and stopped myself from calling her too early as I didn't want to wake her up. When I was certain she was awake I tried calling but she didn't answer. I then decided to text her and this is what happened:
Me: Morning pretty lady.Let me know when your awake, I need to know if you are real because last night felt like a dream #cosyourgorgeous
Her: Hey haha thanks so much how you feeling?
Me: Well seeing as you replied it obviously means I wasnt dreaming ha ha I feel amazing actually. How about you?
NO reply so i left it for a while and towards the afternoon I texted again:
Me: Are we still on for this evening?
Her: Ah its actually my bros bday party tonight totally forgot abt it lol Sorry man
Me: Oh no worries maybe some other time
Her: Yea enjoy ur weekend
Me: Thank you. Have a great weekend. Hope you ok?
Her: Ya perfect hehe
Me: Good to hear, I swear I never took advantage of you
Her: haha I know lol
Me: haha I know just thought you needed to smile
So looking back at those texts now, I can see I made a lot of mistakes. I invested more into the convo by my msgs being longer then hers, I didn't DHV by mentioning I needed to know if she was real, and I gave her IOI's too soon. And my attempt at humor didn't seem to work too well bu maybe that's just me.
Is there anyway that I can recover from this? I could be wrong, because we had been drinking, but I am assuming that her brothers birthday party was a way to gently blow our next meeting off.
Any advise would be greatly appreciated. This is one lady I really don't want to slip through my fingers because I really think something great could happen. What is my next move?