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    bitzer42 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Talking Review for first Facebook attempt

    Ok so this is my very first attempt at getting a girl on fb (a random) to talk to me just after i added her. I feel strongly that i came off to interested if not needy in the last message but overall i think i did well to stay interesting as wellas find out about her.

    Me: Have we ever talked (stole this opener off a thread i read a couple days ago)
    Her: I ... dont know, who are you? Bahaha
    Me: Im the random guy who just added you on facebook haha
    Her: oh well hey! Haha
    Me: no, in all honesty you just kept popping up on my suggested friends ... so hey!
    Her: oh well thank you for noticing me in that annoying pop up thingymobob
    Me: your welcome, i was just bored and all it showed me was you or some guy from Galvin Park ... pretty easy choice
    Her: haha cant argue hey!
    Me: and your not shy too which is good, so i guess its a win win.
    Her: hahaha yeah I'm not
    Me: ok so i want to test how cool you really are, you in?
    Her: Deal. Leggo.
    Me: :O oh sh1t! Haha
    Me: ok soo fav genre artist and album?
    Her: Aww sh1t, so many
    Me: Surely theres one? Ok genre first...
    Her: Rock, Indie rock, 60s, 70s, a tad if rap (not Eminem, more like...immortal techniques etc etc
    Her: yeahh ..
    Me: Oh sh1t! You didnt just say Immortal tech! <3 haha
    Her: >< Hahahaha only a few songs
    Me: Dig the taste though, so even if its just a few songs
    Me: It'll sound seedy as but I'm mostly an Aussie hip hop boy.I can listen to most things though
    Her: Bahaha aww Yeahh
    Her: Nnnaaahhhhh I love my Beatles, jet, kings of Leon, black keys
    Me: I gotta say i love me some jet, Beatles are grouse and ill be honest not big on kings of leon and i don't know the black keys
    Me: I'm gonna go with Hilltop Hoods, Funkoars, Drapht, Fatty Phew and Vents.
    Her: Haha know not one of them
    Me: Haha i know, not a lot of people do. Ok so fav movie?
    Her: Across the universe, zombieland, anchorman, zoolander
    Her: A long list
    Me: Never heard of, totally agree, still need to watch, and zoolander is amazing!
    Me: I'm gonna be a total nerd and say Lord of the rings, and End of Watch
    Her: duuuuuude, How could I forget lotr
    Me: :O oh sh1t. You have to be THE single coolest random add ever
    Her: Woooo!! anyway I have an art sac tomorrow and I already got distracted by Zelda, ganight!!
    Me: Haha night! I might message you tomorrow if i get a chance

    Now i apologize for the length by the way. Is there anything that i could improve the next time i talk to her? If it happens after my stupid finish :/. This was my first attempt at even a willing approach (other than testing a basic conversation template at work today) so how did i do?

    Thanks guys!

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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    if she weren't REALLY into you, trust me she wouldn't be giving you so much attention.

    Now that you've built enough confort, get her number and ask her out.

    In my oppinion, too much Facebook makes you look like an AFC because she then puts you in the same bag than all those other guys that keep talking to her all day long.

    This Facebook crap doesn't work when you actually add really hot girls... they don't answer and you get DLV

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    bitzer42 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    I was thinking about not messaging her today even if she messages me to not seem overly keen. The only thing ive worried about is that conversation was the only conversation we ever had so if i ask her out it might seem a bit creepy. My other concern is what if she is naturally gregarious and gives everyone that much attention?

    Maybe its just rookie nerves haha

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    bitzer42 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    Ok so im talking to this same girl, trying to build rapport with common interests, and i decided to switch it up a bit. Im not sure if it was for better or worse though.

    I decided to variate the carrot trick but i delivered it to her as a cool trick if SHE could do it right. I subtly repeated that it was up to her, hoping that she would not say carrot when i asked, so i could playfully tease her about it, it was her fault after all.

    My problem is i got some contradicting signs, halfway through the basic questions she started getting sarcastic like, that was so cool, OMG wow! So naturally i assumed i had blown it and tried to eject with some dignity by saying if your impressed by that wait to the really cool part. But i guess you will have ti wait for that because i have to go to the gym.

    To this in capital leters she said noo i wamt to do it now, but i said hmm ill think about it, bye

    Im not sure if i saved it or ive blown it or where i am with her now? I want to invite her to a party in 4 weeks as well but i still feel like i need more rapport.

    Thoughts anyone?

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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    Definitely need to keep working at it man. You have to build enough trust with her to meet you. I recently just met a girl off Instagram of all places. Then transitioned it to facebook messaging, then to skype, and then number closed and set up a hangout for the next day. All within a couple hours. Then met her the next day hung out and F closed later that night.

    You have a small window. You need to build rapport and attraction. Figure out what attracts her without actually asking what attracts her. Sometimes if the girl likes to be blunt you can ask her what she looks in a guy.

    Things that helped the girl get comfortable with me was when I asked if she could tell me one thing about her that no one else knew. She had enough interest in me to tell me her secret. And then when she asked for mine I didn't tell her until wayyyy later when she was begging for it. Sometimes girls will give up and get annoyed. Timing is everything.

    Telling something about yourself and opening up a tiny bit can help the girl become more comfortable and open to you.

    Tell her you're going to message her on a date and "forget" or tell her you got caught up being busy. You don't want to give the impression that you are always going to make room for this random person you don't know. Give the illusion that you are busy, even if you aren't. Just make sure that you're FB chat icon isn't green 24/7 lol.

    You need to get the number. You could always transition to number close by saying "Hey I've got an interview with this really important company, I have paranoia that they will check my Facebook for anything that could be held against me" If she asks what kind of stuff, just tell her something that you've done in the past or make it up. Just say you'll be gone for a couple weeks and you really enjoyed talking to her. I use this line, it's stupid but it's worked 5/5 times I've tried it getting the number.

    "Hey I just met you, and this is crazy, so here's my number (555-555-5555), so text me maybe?"

    The girls just laugh at how funny I am and I know they're interested in me because I'm a goof like that. 2 of their responses are like "OK you text ME! 555-555-5555" or the 3 others texted me so that I have their numbers

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    bitzer42 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    Thanks for all that Philthy! I ended up number closing her with the excuse im running out of data on my plan, is there any way we can keep chatting?

    Worked a treat. Hopefully ill get around to posting convo tomorrow, but for now i have rapport to build via mobile telephonic device.

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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    work on texting game. There are a TON of awesome guides I've used to set up rapport and meeting them in person. And if it doesn't workout between you two send me her name and I'll add her. We have a lot in common! haha just playin. Good luck man!

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    bitzer42 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    Ok so sorry about the double post but need urgent advice before i start on my text game.

    I found out i have a couple mates who who are good friends with her and apparently she friendzones EVERYONE. So im not gonna bore you about my mate whos a natural but still got friendzoned, i need to avoid this and im not sure how?

    She is very intelligent but not overly mature and im pretty dead set on landing her so anyone with on ideas on how to avoid friendzone while texting please get back to me asap!

    Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    I think with a major tease like that (she friendzones everyone) she definitely needs to be shown your Alpha side. I think the comfort is there, you've talked a bit and what not. Start making her qualify herself to you.

    Try stuff like "You know you are kind of lucky I texted you, I usually prefer....."
    "You must be really good at photoshopping pictures" ---This is so she actually asks YOU to meet her.

    Those might not be the best lines, but right now you need to definitely keep the mystery and not telegraph any more interest. The purpose of your texts should be to set a face to face. If you can sneak some sex in there, even better.

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    Default Re: Review for first Facebook attempt

    Im gonna text her tonight after work "hey whats up? You know, your lucky that i texted you because i usually prefer more girly girls"

    Ill post later her response and all.


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