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Thread: Why is playing with hair considered as an IOI

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    Default Why is playing with hair considered as an IOI

    I was wondering this.. why is playing with hair considered as an IOI? I know it could be but if you look around yourself a little you`ll see that almost every girl does that, no matter who is around her so to make a conclusion here I would say this is one of the IOIs you can`t rely on much.


    Your thoughts?

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    Default Re: Why is playing with hair considered as an IOI

    I think it has something to do with grooming. Even though they're not actually fixing their hair, they're twirling it around or putting it behind their ears or whatever to clean up a bit. I think it's subconscious and they don't realize they're doing it.

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    Default Re: Why is playing with hair considered as an IOI

    It depends...

    (From the Tao Of Badass)

    Hair twirling:

    A lot of men misread hair twirling because there are several reasons why a woman might be doing it.

    One possible reason is that she is trying to stimulate her scalp, which means that she is bored and is
    losing attraction for you.

    If she is both stimulating her scalp and staying involved in the conversation however; it’s likely that she is becoming sexually stimulated while talking to you.

    The sensory experience related to the head (particularly at the back) is incredibly sexually loaded and full of emotional triggers and anchors.

    Playing with your hair causes blood to flow and makes you feel connected with your body; so if you notice a woman twirling her hair in a way that tightens it and causes it to tug on her scalp, it’s a positive sign.


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    Default Re: Why is playing with hair considered as an IOI

    Quote Originally Posted by Lex S View Post
    I think it has something to do with grooming. Even though they're not actually fixing their hair, they're twirling it around or putting it behind their ears or whatever to clean up a bit. I think it's subconscious and they don't realize they're doing it.
    Bang on, its a uncontrolled behaviour that women do when they find someone attractive... the one to watch for though is "the triangle"

    if a girl is looking from eye-to-eye then down to your mouth repeatedly, they are thinking about kissing you. I have caught a few girls doing it and k-closed immediately!

    licking their lips and sticking their tongue out are two others.

    Read a few body language books and know what to look for, you'll be amazed what you can spot!

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    Default Re: Why is playing with hair considered as an IOI

    From what i understand when girls do that subconsciously when speaking to a guy it associates the man with sexual stimulation. And you shouldnt really rely on any one IOI. You should always have multiple to rely on. That's just my understanding of it. If i got it wrong let me know!

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    Default Re: Why is playing with hair considered as an IOI

    Most of the time it's not... experienced girls wouldn't give so obvious IOI's in my oppinion, unless they are really surprised and not paying attention.


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