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    Default Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    So I met this HB9 pushing so close to HB10 it's not funny. I think that after getting to know her better she will be a HB10 in my eyes.

    Anyway I met her at a club and managed to k-close and N-close. She invited me to join her the following evening but flaked during the day. I didnt let her see I was phased at all by the flake. Anyway texted her the next day and after a few short texts she flakes again. Not a problem I know she has had some bad experiences with guys so didn't push it.

    Following day I send a brilliant line I think it comes from T-Mal (sorry if I'm wrong)

    Me: what's going on, little swan? Your not in jail are you (because I can't afford to bail you out) ha ha

    Her: haha why would I be in jail? Lol

    Me: I can just tell you have a naughty side that could get you into loads of trouble

    FLAKE again, dammit

    Anyway was out at the shops to get some grooming products and decided to get some wax for my chest and stomach. So I use it to my advantage

    Me: Hey, so check this out. I had this crazy idea today to buy wax, No problem there.... BUT I have no idea what I'm doing, and this damn thing is stuck to me now! Advise needed urgently!!!!

    Within seconds I had a reply and she was killing herself laughing. Carried on small banter about what I was going through and she kept laughing. Before she could text drop me I thanked her for her advise, gave her a little nick and said chat soon. Of the 3 convos we have had since meeting this was the first time she sent the last msg.

    I think this worked well because1) it was humorous, 2) it's a male looking after his appearance and ladies love that and I was fortunate enough to pick up that she isn't a fan of mustaches so I would assume the same goes with the permanent fur coat I had under my shirt.

    Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    Hi there.

    I love your text lines!

    The second one was a bit risky, but it ended up working pretty well!

    The problem now is to go from there to actually obtaining a new opportunity. I think you should invite her to a really cool event or night club party that she wouldn't want to miss, because she's clearly only looking to have some fun. And from there, to build enough seduction to get her the same night.

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    Thanks for the advise and feedback.

    After meeting her and seeing that she is the fun type of girl, i had a feeling that the 2nd message wouldn't be a problem even though it was risky.

    My next move will be to get her to join me at some type of fun activity but this is the type of lady that I'm not only interested in seducing. She is definitely girlfriend material. That being said I need to adjust to a way that keeps up the fun, flirts a bit and I still need to find and place a hook. We both lead very busy lives so texting everyday is not a solution, besides I don't want to end up friend zoned or just becoming a text buddy.

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    Quote Originally Posted by Supremo View Post
    Thanks for the advise and feedback.

    After meeting her and seeing that she is the fun type of girl, i had a feeling that the 2nd message wouldn't be a problem even though it was risky.

    My next move will be to get her to join me at some type of fun activity but this is the type of lady that I'm not only interested in seducing. She is definitely girlfriend material. That being said I need to adjust to a way that keeps up the fun, flirts a bit and I still need to find and place a hook. We both lead very busy lives so texting everyday is not a solution, besides I don't want to end up friend zoned or just becoming a text buddy.
    Man... I'm having the same issue with a HB that I ended up having some feelings for. These farking chicks only want to have fun, and they have hordes of men texting them and trying to get them. Usually they don't really want a boyfriend as they enjoy their situation.

    Here are three issues I've been experiencing recently in similar cases, if it is any help...

    - When you invite her to the second event, you'll have to be very careful not falling into the friend zone... your PUA level will have to be very smooth and create enough seduction but you'll also need to last very long without losing her interest...

    - IF she loses interest.. you'll have a real hard time, cause you will have to take hard decisions, and accept that you lost her at the present time for preserving your chances in the future... OR risk going all out!

    - Make sure you get some really interesting people that can keep her entertained so you don't have to do the clown for 5 hours... BUT make sure also that they won't try to hit on her and will really DHV you. Try to get some wind woman that could make her jalous (but she mustn't think that you're hitting on other women)

    Follow the overall PUA rules and don't get fooled by emotions!

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    Thanks again man every bit of advise will help a great deal.

    Well I find myself in a similar situation actually. From what I understand she has just recently ended a relationship with a typical douche bag, you know the ones that drive a sports car, there skin is pumped full of steroids and they think the world needs to wipe their asses for them because they are über COOL. Good news for me because I've got none of those flaws. I've also got loads of time to play this one out right because I'm leaving for a holiday in a month so I don't want to get into anything too serious at the moment. When I get back from my trip that can all change.

    She has some negative "quotes" on her FB page about guys and trust. Is there anyway I could turn that around to work in my favor. I'm genuinely a decent guy and I've never been out to just f-close any lady. I take that sh1t seriously. I just need some advise on how to portray that properly that stands out from the rest of the douche bag sweet talkers trying to get her into their beds.

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    Man, that is the trap with women ; they want nice guys, but they're not attracted to guys that are too nice!

    I believe the way you should behave is more like a playful alpha male that is really nice to everybody and caring. While remaining alpha, let her know that you care about your family, talk nicely to people when she's around, etc...

    I remember once, that a girl told me I was rude to other people and that she disliked it, lol.

    Keep the gentle negs (while remaining playful and making sure she doesn't take it back), while also taking good care of her and being a great gentleman.

    But in my oppinion, man, you're getting emotionally involved and you should really have backup plans and other girls in case this doesn't work.

    This chick is an HB9 and has countless possibilities. Chances are 3 times slimmer than with HBs6-7.

    Very often, things just can't work out, especially if you met her at a nightclub... if it fails, in the end it's either rolling off at the right time to preserve the opportunity for another time, or playing all cards and risking forgetting about the chick if it doesn't work. All of this without getting desperate or causing irrevocable damage.

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    Look at the end of the day it would be nice if this did go the distance but I wont lose sleep if it doesnt. So I don't feel I'm getting emotionally involved here. Obviously it's something I will be willing to do if it headed in that direction. I've got this stupid tendency to want to show ladies that not all us guys are dick heads. Maybe I'm wrong I don't know lol

    Funny thing is I was told by an ex of my mine that I was too good to her. What the hell? Women claim they want the nicest guys but when they get him they suddenly don't want it anymore.

    Meeting ladies at clubs is always risky and something I don't do often. I met her through a close female friend of mine and turns out they have been friends since childhood.

    I'm a bit stumped on my next move though. Should I try get a D2 or not?

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    man - that's your best shot. If she's her childhood friend, and you know her really well, she could really DLV and proof you so you can actually make this work. Rely on her only if she's trustworthy.

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    I know that's the magical part of this. My friend did some DHV on my behalf so that makes it slightly easier. What's better is she is a trustworthy person and anyone that's knows her personally knows how trustworthy she is.

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    Default Re: Awesome way I recovered from 2 flakes

    Hey Supremo, Any news on this HB9? I am in a similar situation with a HB9 I've met. Also not going out to get laid or anything. So I want to get to know her, but getting a D2 is bit of a problem.

    We text and flirt a lot, but I will see what happens. Good luck man


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