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    Default In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    In the beginning when all of you guys started.. how did you break away from your old habits get out more and start approaching random women?


    Ive been reading a lot lately but its becoming SO difficult to just break out of my comfort zone and approach women i find attractive randomly..


    Maybe i should just work on approaching ANYONE?

    Then work on women..


    then after practice?

    Or should i just jump right in?

    Its killing me; I don't know why I'm waiting i do this to myself

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    Default Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    Don't beat yourself up. We are evolutionarily programmed to be apprehensive about approaching new people especially females.

    But you are on the right track. YES, you should be talking with everyone all the time. Become a more social person. Just this alone will boost your self esteem and make you feel more comfortable talking to strangers.

    And if you're in a bar or something talking with girls you're not interested in or even guys can really help get your mojo going and it's great practice.

    Keep on the straight and narrow buddy!

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    Default Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    Just be yourself, start approaching women the way you are comfortable with.... do it every time you got a chance. Nothing beats "hand-on-Practice".

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    Cool Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    Quote Originally Posted by Leoc13 View Post
    Just be yourself, start approaching women the way you are comfortable with.... do it every time you got a chance. Nothing beats "hand-on-Practice".
    definitely agree with a modification, be your best self, i'm still getting over AA aswell

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    Default Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    im the same way bud..but i did start talkin to more women today while at was at work....one girl that was clockin for work wit a wendys bag i told her to save me some real random HB7 by the way she laughed a little n a lil more small talk from my end but i didnt close wit anything she went out the door n that was it...but hey practice makes perfect

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    Default Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    I started with waitresses and sales associates. Waitresses always have to come back, and sales associates get paid to talk to you. More often than not they will be highly receptive--because it's their job.
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    Default Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    I started with waitresses and sales associates. Waitresses always have to come back, and sales associates get paid to talk to you. More often than not they will be highly receptive--because it's their job.
    I still do this,These girls are told to be nice to us! (customers) Sometimes when I think she's really smoking HOT,I would write my number on a piece of paper and just before leaving indicating that I would be happy if she will get in touch but no pressure.
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    Default Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    Try the Direct Rejection Experiment. DRE for short. Walk up to as many woman on the street and ask them to reject you. This is what I do! And it works awesome.

    So this is what I say.... "Miss, I need to borrow you for 1 second! I have a fear of being rejected by woman and so I want you to reject me as hard and as cold as you posssibly can. K? Go!"

    Most of the time, they will come back with, "I can't do that. I am not mean" What ever they say. Doesn't matter. Some woman will just look at you shocked.

    But it does a couple of things that are very attractive.
    1. You are being congruent, you are expressing your true self.
    2. You are being vulnerable. The willingness to emote is very attractive.
    3. Despite your fear, you are still approaching.
    4. You are demonstrating, that you do find her attractive.

    As you get better, you can throw in that you do find her attractive, and then even role play with her. Switch the tables, and you be the girl rejecting her! This is my favorite opener and routine so far.

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    Default Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    Quote Originally Posted by Anuks View Post
    Try the Direct Rejection Experiment. DRE for short. Walk up to as many woman on the street and ask them to reject you. This is what I do! And it works awesome.

    So this is what I say.... "Miss, I need to borrow you for 1 second! I have a fear of being rejected by woman and so I want you to reject me as hard and as cold as you posssibly can. K? Go!"

    Most of the time, they will come back with, "I can't do that. I am not mean" What ever they say. Doesn't matter. Some woman will just look at you shocked.

    But it does a couple of things that are very attractive.
    1. You are being congruent, you are expressing your true self.
    2. You are being vulnerable. The willingness to emote is very attractive.
    3. Despite your fear, you are still approaching.
    4. You are demonstrating, that you do find her attractive.

    As you get better, you can throw in that you do find her attractive, and then even role play with her. Switch the tables, and you be the girl rejecting her! This is my favorite opener and routine so far.
    question n it just came to me while i was reading this....would u think something like that would work on chicks online it would b pretty funny but i wonder WOULD IT hmmmm

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    Default Re: In the beginning how did you guys start approaching?

    Question n it just came to me while i was reading this....would u think something like that would work on chicks online it would b pretty funny but i wonder WOULD IT hmmmm

    Above all else, get off your computer. Why do 3 hours online what you could do in 5 minutes in person?
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