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    jingfunny is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Is mirroring a DLV?

    Do you think that mirroring is demonstration of low value? I want to show my interest in a girl, but I don't want my behavior to be perceived as low value by her. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: Mirroring, DLV

    Hmm, I can't say this for sure but I feel like it's not. From what I've read it helps you connect with people very quickly. It's actually something that humans do naturally so it feels really natural to do it.

    Maybe mirror at the times you want to connect and do your own thing when you want to make a statement. I know it feels weird to have very different body language than the person you're talking to and good when you're body language is similar.

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    Default Re: Is mirroring a DLV?

    Depends on which aspect of mirroring you do at what time in the game.

    Before approaching if you mirror her from across the room then it will be more likely that she'll notice you. When you open you want her to lean forward and you to lean back and be turned away and only turn into her once she's IOI'd you enough or qualified herself. Mirroring her hand gestures should be okay. Once you've reached the later half of the comfort building stage mirroring her will be beneficial.

    Generally mirroring will build rapport. Remember that leaning in is an IOI, as is turning toward someone. So notice when she gives you these IOI's and give them to her only at the right time.
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    Default Re: Is mirroring a DLV?

    If a girl gives an IOI to me, how should I react? Should I return her an IOI?

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    Default Re: Is mirroring a DLV?

    Think of it as her giving you an IOI has bought her a little bit more of your time and attention. If she IOI's then give her an IOI as big as kissing her or as small as simply continuing to talk to her without reacting otherwise. You can also Disqualify her as long as you push-pull it right.
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