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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Hey man, I think Supremo pretty much summed it up. Do not acknowlwdge your last text and if sje brings it up (assuming she responds) then don't apologize or explain yourself. If you want to reopen use any inside joke between you. Make it short and sweet. Search the text forums there is some great stuff there.

    "You are bot gonna believe what happened to me yesterday..... You are going to laugh " see lf she bites

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Anuks View Post
    Yea I agree with Fuser. That last text presented an ultimatum, which shows that you are outcome dependent.

    To not be put in the friend zone, this is what you do. When you are alone with her or with friends, touch her. Start slow, and just touch her arm and shoulder. Then move to putting your arm around her and grab her and hold her hand. That's probably all she is comfortable with for the time being. If you have the know how and experience, kiss her when you sense she is ready.

    Say this to kiss her, when she gives you IOIs. You: "Would you like to kiss me?" Her: "No" You calmly say "I didn't say I wanted you to, I just thought you had something on your mind".

    She probably won't say that. She will probably say either maybe, yes or even I'm not ready. Demonstrate that you are able to walk away and not push her. If she says yes or maybe, you say "Ok" then just go over and kiss her full on the lips, and no tongue.

    The reason guys get put in the friend zone, is because they are afraid to telegraph interest. Too show interest correctly, I like this analogy. When you go to the store to buy a TV, You have the money in your pocket to buy a new TV. But you are not sure which TV is RIGHT for you. You demonstrate that you have standards by using dis-qualifiers. A dis-qualifier is an awesome way too demonstrate to the woman, that you are not needy, and that you will walk away if she does not meet up to your standards.

    An example of a dis-qualifier would be, "Are you an adventurous woman? I prefer my woman to be adventurous and independent thinkers" If she jumps through this "Hoop" if you will, by saying "Oh yes I am I have done this and that and I am very adventurous, blah blah blah" Then you know she is into you. When she does this, DON'T jump on her and accept her. Let her chase you a bit.

    If she doesn't then you need to disqualify yourself, by saying you don't know if she is your type and then DHV.

    You could even think over whether or not, her being not completely over her ex as a disqualifier. Do you want someone so fresh from a break up and obviously still not over their ex? Think about that for a second.
    Thanks for ur reply. It has made me see this whol situation in a different light.

    It must be my bad way of thinking that causes my actions.

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Supremo View Post
    Well man you need to go to this person and slap him/her. They gave you the wrong advise. The right idea was there but the method in carrying out is wrong. She obviously will have feelings for this guy especially if he broke it off. Maybe try a bf destroyer, even though it is her ex, it will disqualify him. One thing I have learned from break ups is that no matter how bad you want it to work there was a reason it happened and that reason will always creep back up in the long run.

    Give this girl space, don't come across as needy and don't invest too much. If she doesn't respond in a day or so then reopen. When you reopen you need to act as though you forgot about the last message you sent her. Meaning don't bring it up but if she does bring it up then you need to show her you are man enough to talk about it but that you don't lose sleep over it. DHV as much as you can from now because you AFC'ed man

    When she invites you over or out for drinks don't just accept straight away. Say I've got something planned then suggest another time to meet up or say that you have plans but you have an hour or so to spare. If you do that make sure you only stay that hour then leave. You need to get this girl chasing you instead of you chasing her. Just be outrageous and fun because that is exactly what she needs coming out of a relationship

    Good luck man and keep us updated

    We havent been in contact for 2/3 days now and trying not to think about it to much. Must come down to the saying ' u always want what u cant have' .

    yeah i definately agree i need to get her chasing but am pretty stuck on what to say to reopen with her?

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    Hey man, I think Supremo pretty much summed it up. Do not acknowlwdge your last text and if sje brings it up (assuming she responds) then don't apologize or explain yourself. If you want to reopen use any inside joke between you. Make it short and sweet. Search the text forums there is some great stuff there.

    "You are bot gonna believe what happened to me yesterday..... You are going to laugh " see lf she bites
    well...she has an amazing a$$ so i call her bubble butt haha. Also we played a game were we hit each other's a$$ and keep score and i was winnin. could maybe use some thing with this??

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Adz91 View Post
    well...she has an amazing a$$ so i call her bubble butt haha. Also we played a game were we hit each other's a$$ and keep score and i was winnin. could maybe use some thing with this??
    There's your answer man. You could use that to reopen her. I can't think straight now but something along the lines of you're winning the game and she needs to redeem herself if she stands a chance with you. Make it funny but DHV like a farking boss

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Supremo View Post
    There's your answer man. You could use that to reopen her. I can't think straight now but something along the lines of you're winning the game and she needs to redeem herself if she stands a chance with you. Make it funny but DHV like a farking boss
    yeah might try something like that but al wait until tomorrow now.

    still trying to get the hang of this DHV aswell

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Ok so am gonna try reopen with her today with something along the lines as this,



    Hey little south african just remembered ur losing our game at slaps bubble ass . Your gonna have to redeem yourself.

    How about that?

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Adz91 View Post
    Ok so am gonna try reopen with her today with something along the lines as this,



    Hey little south african just remembered ur losing our game at slaps bubble ass . Your gonna have to redeem yourself.

    How about that?
    Not bad but i would change ass to butt. bubble butt sounds better then bubble ass. Unless that is a specific nick you have already given her before. Little South African hey? where you from? Im South African

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Thanks gonna try this now. Will post her reply.

    See if she brings up thr thing about that last text i sent her? How do u brush it aside?

    She moved from south africa to where i live now my friend. UK

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    Default Re: Think i got friendzoned by this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Adz91 View Post
    Thanks gonna try this now. Will post her reply.

    See if she brings up thr thing about that last text i sent her? How do u brush it aside?

    She moved from south africa to where i live now my friend. UK
    ok perfect then instead of saying little south african call her bokkie. Its a local word we use to refer to cute girls.
    If she brings up the last text tell her you were joking and you thought she was someone with a sense of humour


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