hi, this is my first post so go easy.
I met this girl through one of my friends and managed to get her number. we've been texting most days for the past week and been meeting a couple times aswell.
here's the thing... she was hinting for me to either see her on her break at work which i have done twice but whenever she asks me or i ask her at night to hang out shes always got some1 else with her like a friend or whatever? one night we had a good time so i text her asking to arrange something for tomorrow night just us 2. she replied ' my ex has just text me and he's comin round to sort a few things out bla bla' . she lives on her own so wether its bils or the relationship itself i dont know? i replied with ' oh ok thats fine no worries' . she then tried to draw me in by replying with ' aww i am so confused'.
its been a couple days since he was ment to come round and weve meet a couple more times. she knows i like her and i think she likes me but she told me she just wants to get things sorted out with him first? i dont know who finished with who but am trying not to get involed or listen to her stories.
ive tried going cold n go NC but she stills texts me first and quite a few times. she will flirt etc, and at the weekend she asked me round for drinks and then head uptown. so i brought some friends then we had a good night n went up town then ended up stayin at hers but again her friend was there so 3 of us slept in the same bed so nothing happened. we still havent kissed or anything? she said last night ' u can come round n stay but no kissing yet or sex' haha jokingly. guess i lost my balls and didnt make a move becoz she kept tellin me those things.
so after that night we hung out again but again her friends were involved. when i got home we never contacted each other so the following morning i decided to shoot her this text ' you now ur wasting my time by fooking around with your ex so when u want to play with th big kids u can talk to me then'. wanted to try get across th fact i wasnt going to sit around and wait. Havent heard back from her after that text but its only been a day.
On that night out from the weeknd i opened up towards her and she opened up to but she said' just let me get things sorted with him first'.
is it possible shes still got feelings for the ex and hes furking her around n pullin th strings?
Should i just keep NC with her now? Dont know why but i have strong feelings for her. Have i been friendzoned now and its so late?