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Thread: mad at me because idgaf

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    Default mad at me because idgaf

    Long story short.

    been going back and forth with this one girl. two nights ago me and her were texting and around 12am (thats when she usually sleeps)she replied to my text with 4 text messages and the last one was ttyl.

    she said ttyl so i didnt reply. Most girls know i often dont reply. But she said ttyl so honestly there was no point in replying, even if i did wtf would i say.

    So the next day im just with some buddies and i text her "im bored" and she goes off saying "ohh you end convos like that and then text me saying your bored?"

    I replied saying ending a convo like how? whatd you talking about. She said nvm im going to sleep goodnight.

    i sent her a text saying "ur like a puzzle i just cant solve. sweet dream" and she went off again saying im not a puzzle and how she was mad at me now.

    Let me know what i should text her.

    please note that my "image" in front of her and other girls is the asshole, i get enough girls, idgaf image (which is true, she even knows a couple girls are chasing me)

    so i dont wanna send her a pathetic text that lowers my value.

    Also the reason why i actually care about this girl is because i actually want to get with her.

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    Default Re: mad at me because idgaf

    LOL she's loving it dude. Just keep up the good work. I don't think you can much more than just teasing her a little bit. Ask her if she's always this moody or if it's just that time of the month? Okay that might be a little douchy but test it.

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    Default Re: mad at me because idgaf

    keep doing what you're doing, it's a sh1t test, seriously when someone says TTYL there's really no point replying unless it's a simple "laterz" which stales out the convo anyway but is more "respectful" as you both then would be saying bye (with the effect)

    but don't take it personal and don't acknowledge it next time (y) or just say "yeah" / "right"

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    Default Re: mad at me because idgaf

    Hyp is right, don't supplicate. You've got value now

    for the record, text with more interesting things than "I'm bored", but that's a whole other topic

    Tell her to chill out. She's obviously in to you, which means she'll come to you if you show dis-interest at her anger. It's unwarranted, so don't worry about it
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: mad at me because idgaf

    I just feel like there's a fine line between being attracted to someone who shows disinterest and a total asshole. I know shes attracted to me because of my disinterest but i think if i dont resolve this whole "puzzle issue" or if i dont try to make her feel better then she might just categorize me as an asshole

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    Default Re: mad at me because idgaf

    It's not wrong to follow your instincts then.

    I prefer the approach of - Show interest while you're with her, stay aloof on texts. It will make her happy to be with you, but always keep her wondering when she's not (which means she's thinking about you more, and that = investment)

    So, set up a date, if you really want, tell her you totally dig her but are busy and sometimes forget to respond to texts or whatever you want to say. Just don't fully give in to the question or change your texting behavior.

    And don't admit you were wrong, you weren't.
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    Default Re: mad at me because idgaf

    I've heard talking to people saying that "you're bored" lowers your value slightly. But it seems you did ok. I think she senses you like her and you have oneitits. Its all cool. Just plow through her shit test. And don't be afraid to show your inner self.

    There is a recent video of Brad Rsd talking about how at some point you actually have to become AFC on a girl to get her. Its advanced but in this case, I think its important.

    Or in The Way of the Superior Man, by David Deida, he talks about loving a woman and not being afraid to show her his true heart. And opener her heart to love. Risky I know, but try it.


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