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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    well as requested, your goose is cooked, don't send more than 2 texts without her replying (shows neediness), furthermore don't call her (even if you have the potential urge), if she was interested by now she would've replied....moving further down the track

    ''Hi what's up?How is your seminar going?I am going to a female friend birthday tonight..cu!''
    this is what a friend asks a friend, there's nothing there like Virgil described (imagination capturing / interest building)...
    more so why did you even use CU, the idea behind texts is to carry conversations over a long time, this is like starting a conversation and then saying bye and walking away without her feeling the need to respond

    and seriously read that link Virgil gave, it's g0ld


    thanks I guess i am done with this one
    btw i check again the text and i did not say cu.. i ended with the question mark..

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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    what was the exact text you sent? if you put a question mark on the end that to me doesn't make sense

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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    Hi what's up?I am going to a female friend birthday tonight .How is your seminar going?.

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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    Quote Originally Posted by Anuks View Post
    Virgil, there was nothing in that post explaining of what he should have said. Its a post of how Tmal is going to post something in the future. I am confused. What was that guy supposed to send?
    No, but it did explain very clearly what he did wrong with the initial text. It was to make him realize that and do it differently next time. Teaching is one of my majors and I think pointing students in the right direction to have them figure it out themselves, like I did here, works best. I'd have been okay with him reading it and not knowing what to send back, but he didn't even read it before asking me what to send. (No offence Giovanni, I don't want to go on and on about it, it's fine, but I wanted to explain this to Anuks.)

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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    So I sent to another girl after a long time the following text yesterday ''You just popped into my head so Hi...now please stay out of there '' and got a reply this morning ''
    ;;ah aha ah good morning Giovanni . Everything is fine thanks. i am busy wiih work as always...how about you'?''

    So I was thinking to text her back going direct asking her out for Saturday something like
    ''“Craving wine tasting at X place Roll with me this Fri @ 21:13 you’ll love their profume and experience!”


    you think it will work?

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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    Do a few more back and forth texts to get her excited/enthused and build attraction (mostly cocky/funny when over text) before you reach for a meetup.

    Right now you've got her engaging which is good / but she mentioned being busy which sets herself up to flake. Build more attraction with a little text conversation, let it reach a high point, then text her an FTC for why you have to stop texting (going to bed, boss is looking, getting into the car, etc - and with each of those you can add a little cocky/funny DHV btw) and with the FTC mention to hang out
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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    Dp you have a couple of lines?

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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    No, but it did explain very clearly what he did wrong with the initial text. It was to make him realize that and do it differently next time. Teaching is one of my majors and I think pointing students in the right direction to have them figure it out themselves, like I did here, works best. I'd have been okay with him reading it and not knowing what to send back, but he didn't even read it before asking me what to send. (No offence Giovanni, I don't want to go on and on about it, it's fine, but I wanted to explain this to Anuks.)

    So i sent her this text hyp suggested me "you don't eat, sleep or socialise? seems monotone, slavetotheworkforce haha'' and she replied '' more or less this the way it goes and it makes me happy for the time being therefore is ok ''


    So any good line to continue?

    I was think in order to build some confort το text something like '' I am sure work is not the only thing you like doing . There must be some others things that makes you happy but you are just having a wall not to reveal them''
    I mean I want to have her start interacting.

    She is about my age 35 working in the fashion industry (HB 9) and I could try to call her but in the past she did not answer the phone texting me excuses later . . I guess I need to build some confort first

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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    Quote Originally Posted by GiovanniP View Post

    I was think in order to build some confort το text something like '' I am sure work is not the only thing you like doing . There must be some others things that makes you happy but you are just having a wall not to reveal them''
    I mean I want to have her start interacting.
    If you build comfort at this point you'll get in the FZ. You can get more interactions by builing attraction and getting her to chase you. This "interested in other things" shows too much interest in her. Try going with just making a statement to start a conversation rather than asking a question

    Instead of "how was ur thanksgiving?"
    Try: "I just ate my weight in stuffing and explained three episodes of Family Guy to my aunt and grandpa... I don't think they got it lol"

    Imstead of "how's work?"
    Try: "I always feel like a ninja when I sneak into my bosses office to use the good copier xD"

    Instead of "what are you into"
    Try: "I recently got into [salsa or bike riding or something else that you probably have in common ] and [funny story about some awkward guy there last week or a few hours ago]"
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    Default Re: Thinking of sending afc tex

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    If you build comfort at this point you'll get in the FZ. You can get more interactions by builing attraction and getting her to chase you. This "interested in other things" shows too much interest in her. Try going with just making a statement to start a conversation rather than asking a question

    Instead of "how was ur thanksgiving?"
    Try: "I just ate my weight in stuffing and explained three episodes of Family Guy to my aunt and grandpa... I don't think they got it lol"

    Imstead of "how's work?"
    Try: "I always feel like a ninja when I sneak into my bosses office to use the good copier xD"

    Instead of "what are you into"
    Try: "I recently got into [salsa or bike riding or something else that you probably have in common ] and [funny story about some awkward guy there last week or a few hours ago]"
    yes i see but I dunno much about her honestly and I would need a good text in reply getting her to chase me..


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