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    Default Advice on flakey behaviour and no reply from HB8

    Hey all. Just looking for some advice and insight.

    took this hb8 out Afew times, k closed in a club. Expressed that she was "shy and nervous " a lot which I thought was strange as I've known her for along time 7 year ish. Since we were in school.

    Anyway she started to flake last week so froze her out and she started to become interested. Liking my photos, commenting on my tweets etc. so I left it Afew days and text.

    "Hello there . Me you Ice skating tonight, ill get you at 6;58".
    Her: oh sorry I can't tonight I'm going to the cinema with *insert girl name*. How was today? Did it go well?
    Me. Maybe another time. Yes today was excellent thank you!

    I still went ice skating and I took a picture of the rink and put it on twitter. A female which I had taken out before commented "looks great! When are me and you gona hang out again xxxxx"

    The girl that I'm taking out n having the problems liked the photo so I knew she had seen.

    This morning I think ill ask how the cinema was so I did. Can't remember what I put as I deleted it. But added a twilight joke in there.
    Her: I didn't go in the end. Freind bailed on me. Did you have fun I've skating who did you go with?
    Me: oh that's a shame. Ice skating was cooool. Was abit chilling though haha.
    Her. Who did you go with? Bet it was cold. Anyone fall over.
    Me: oh yes it was cold. Seen Afew people fall over I didn't though and that's all that counts haha.
    Her: Ahhh good good. Where was it at and who did you go with ?
    (I was trying to avoid answering this! But knew I had to now)
    Me: just went with some freinds. It's at *insert place*. Very nice. Also me and you are going out on Friday. Ill pick you up at 7:57

    You guessed it no reply! What's this behaviour about!

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    Default Re: Advice on flakey behaviour and no reply from HB8

    Well this is a tough one. I mean you managed to k-close, you didn't seem needy and it doesn't seem like you invested too much. She was obviously concerned that you went with another female. It would of played out perfect if there was another lady that went and you managed to get a picture of the 2 of you.

    If she doesn't reply after a few days then reopen with something funny.

    Maybe use pwonager's line from this thread

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...html#post70380

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    Default Re: Advice on flakey behaviour and no reply from HB8

    Ahh been there before..she responds favorably to your texts, banter then u ttry handle logistics and she goes cold.. well its all about playful persistance.
    For example after sending ur last text to invite...if she doesn't hook text her back an hour later..Omg Did u get kidnapped, should I send a search party of midget ninjas to com rescue!?...(thenconf irm the invite again but add a restriction I.e. but only if you promise to behave)

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    Default Re: Advice on flakey behaviour and no reply from HB8

    She replied "if I'm not out with the girls as its Been mentioned xx"

    What do I reply to that?

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    Default Re: Advice on flakey behaviour and no reply from HB8

    As its been mentioned? Didnt get that part lol
    Well u have a couple of options..invite her and the girls to something fun ur gonna do or bait her. Go dead air then randomly text her Omg Just realized what celebrity you remind me off...crazy crazy then she will be like who! You respons with call you in a bit.
    Then she will be 10x more likely to answer ur call and after some teasing go for the date and the chances of her flaking will be diminished greatly!

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    Default Re: Advice on flakey behaviour and no reply from HB8

    when shes said "as its been mentioned" she means her freinds have mentioned going out but bo soild plans. Me and her freinds are manily a no no for some reason they dont like me ha! Like i said went to school to them and was a complete D1ck in school.

    You see the thing is this girl doesnt repsond well to jokey or funny messages its really bizarre.

    Needs a really good witty response to give her. Was thinking

    "ah ok cool, well youve gota let me know tomorrow by 7:28pm "

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    Default Re: Advice on flakey behaviour and no reply from HB8

    Well you need to get rid of the obstacles. If you happen to be out with them as a group then pay more attention to the friends. Win them over and show them your not the same guy as you were in school. You making yourself too available by telling her she needs to let you know by such and such a time. Remember you need to make her think that her not going on a date with you is something she can't afford to kiss. That being in a date with you is a privilege for her and not a convenience for you

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    Default Re: Advice on flakey behaviour and no reply from HB8

    Thanks man! She got the reply. "Ok no problem. Not to worry" Didnt really know what else to put sure shell text if she's interested if not her loss.


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