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    riffman691 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default DAMAGE CONTROL QUESTION regarding a 3rd date gone Sour!

    So I've never been in this situation before And I want to know how I can salvage this..
    I went on 2 awesome dates with this girl, heavy kino, teasting kiss close and almost F close but wasn't able due to logistics.
    Had my 3rd date with her yesterday and everything was going great until something weird happened..my body language with her was always positive and decided to throw in a bit of negative body language..except I overdid it! I did it for 3 minutes and after I came back from the RR we bounced to venue #2 after one more beer she finally calls me out on it..telling me how weird it is like she did something wrong and that she really wanted to get up and leave after that happened! Well she pretty much payed for our tab at venue#2 and told me to drop her off as she wanted to grab a drink by herself before she went home and that thanks to me she sobered up quick and doesn't want to argue. I knew I wasn't able to fix it then as she was riding her emotions so I dropped her off and left. Now I do want to continue talking to her and she's shocked about how instead of an awesome 3rd date, it became hostile and awkward. Should I text her as if nothing happened tonight and just continue being playful or what should I do to be able to salvage it and eventually see her again?

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    Shortman is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: DAMAGE CONTROL QUESTION regarding a 3rd date gone Sour!

    What exactly did you do to piss her off? What was this negative body language?

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    riffman691 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: DAMAGE CONTROL QUESTION regarding a 3rd date gone Sour!

    I pretty much gave my back to her (it was only suppose to be for a few seconds) and forgot I was doing it so I was sipping on my drink looking around with my shoulder and back kinda facing her for almost 4 minutes! Never happened before. What should my next step be?


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