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    deenio is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I see her every day, how to escalate?

    An HB9 that had shown strong IOIs 3 weeks ago when we started to hang out (with a group). Now I see her every day on campus, but we only have a 5 minute conversation and she shows very little IOIs.

    What do you think I should do next?

    (longer description below)

    Thanks!

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    deenio is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I see her every day, how to escalate?

    Here's a longer description in case you'd like more info

    About 3 weeks ago, I started hanging out with a girl. We went for dinner (with a group) and went to a party. Both times, she showed strong IOIs, and by the end of it, we shared a cab ride where she had her head on my shoulder and my arms around her.

    Following that, we haven't had very long conversations. We would see each other every 1 or 2 days at university, but never have more than a 5 minute conversation before either she or I left to do whatever we were doing. It died down gradually, and I think it had to do with my lack of reaction to her flirting (though I did a little).

    She took my cigarettes to 'try to help me quit', and would give me a couple every day when we met at school. I think it's her way of making sure she sees me every day. I would text/call her to ask where she was, and she would come to where I am to give me my cigarettes, and then she would leave after a 3 minute conversation.

    I'm wondering what my next step should be. Should I not see her for a couple of days and pick it up from there, or should I continue this trend and hopefully have a longer conversation to lead to a 1-on-1 D2? Her IOIs have definitely diminished from before.

    Thanks!


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