Re: Why are girls attracted to a$$holes!?
The whole nice guy image is something that repels girls like vegetables to a fat boy (I'm fat so I can make these jokes). A reason for this is: when guys try too hard to make themselves look perfect and caring towards a girl, it shows they're only doing it for her so they can get in their pants. In other words they're mostly faking it and girls have seen it on countless occasions and just don't bother with these kind of guys.
So in turn when a guy who turns out to be a bad guy/asshole he's showing his flaws and is being HONEST rather than a nice guy who is normally lying to get the girl. The bad guy doesn't give a shit which is another alpha male trait of having THE ABILITY TO WALK AWAY while showing he can get other girls by not caring which is PRESELECTION.
Also like Cody mentions in the above post, the asshole usually evokes an emotional reaction from a girl which is one of the key elements, if not the key element in getting a woman attracted to you. Women are controlled by emotions and can't normally fight these emotions, so when the asshole evokes the emotions in her that appeals to her she will want him.
The main thing is to not change yourself to become an asshole but shift this whole nice guy persona out of you. Learn to tease, joke around, not to take things too seriously, be fun and don't take shit. It's funny to me, whenever a girl calls me a nice guy or they tell one of my girl friends about me and say's I'm a nice guy. It automatically triggers something in my head that says ok, lets start negging, teasing and disqualifying.
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