So its official, I feel like I may have killed attraction with my girlfriend. As I stated in previous posts, she has been acting distant this week. We talked about hanging out after thanksgiving dinners yesterday, however she was not feeling well (actual kidney infection, cold). She told me yesterday morning via phone that she'd let me know, so I left her alone throughout the day. She began texting me around 4 in the afternoon, and we chatted back and forth about each other's holiday parties. Around 9 when I was about to leave, I didn't hear anything from her about the hang out, and since she was sick, I figured I'd cut her a break and just head home.
I texted her that I think I'll head home since I figure she is exhausted, and I'm tired as well. She texts back "ok...I guess" which confused me, so I sent to her "well I mean I can stop over to visit for a bit if you want, just thought you wern't up for it". She responded that no its ok she's going to be going to bed soon. I told her to have a good night and left it at that. Around 10:30 she texts me "my brother's really trying to impress Mariah over here lol!" (Mariah is her bro's GF of a couple months as well, and I am friends with them both).
I couldn't help myself, I got pissed, and texted her "so your brother can have his GF over, but you didn't even want me to stop over for 10 minutes to visit on my way back. Don't get it." She got kind of defensive and we went back and forth about this for a few texts, but I toned it down as to smooth things over before bed. Told her its not a big deal I just felt left out, and she appologized, said she didn't know she was coming. I ended the convo with a "no worries about tonight, I know your not feeling well and all. You have a long day tomorrow, get some rest. Night xo" NOTHING back....
I'm afraid that I have killed attraction now, as she was already acting distant this week. I should have kept my mouth shut, but I couldn't help it. Did I overstep my bounds here? How should I proceed to recover from this and re-engage her, were supposed to hang out tomorrow..? Would it be most helpful to just leave her alone today for the majority of the day, if I don't hear anything text her something later "hows work?", or text her a slight appology about last night?
Help appreciated guys!