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    Default May have killed GF's attraction in me, what to do?

    So its official, I feel like I may have killed attraction with my girlfriend. As I stated in previous posts, she has been acting distant this week. We talked about hanging out after thanksgiving dinners yesterday, however she was not feeling well (actual kidney infection, cold). She told me yesterday morning via phone that she'd let me know, so I left her alone throughout the day. She began texting me around 4 in the afternoon, and we chatted back and forth about each other's holiday parties. Around 9 when I was about to leave, I didn't hear anything from her about the hang out, and since she was sick, I figured I'd cut her a break and just head home.

    I texted her that I think I'll head home since I figure she is exhausted, and I'm tired as well. She texts back "ok...I guess" which confused me, so I sent to her "well I mean I can stop over to visit for a bit if you want, just thought you wern't up for it". She responded that no its ok she's going to be going to bed soon. I told her to have a good night and left it at that. Around 10:30 she texts me "my brother's really trying to impress Mariah over here lol!" (Mariah is her bro's GF of a couple months as well, and I am friends with them both).

    I couldn't help myself, I got pissed, and texted her "so your brother can have his GF over, but you didn't even want me to stop over for 10 minutes to visit on my way back. Don't get it." She got kind of defensive and we went back and forth about this for a few texts, but I toned it down as to smooth things over before bed. Told her its not a big deal I just felt left out, and she appologized, said she didn't know she was coming. I ended the convo with a "no worries about tonight, I know your not feeling well and all. You have a long day tomorrow, get some rest. Night xo" NOTHING back....

    I'm afraid that I have killed attraction now, as she was already acting distant this week. I should have kept my mouth shut, but I couldn't help it. Did I overstep my bounds here? How should I proceed to recover from this and re-engage her, were supposed to hang out tomorrow..? Would it be most helpful to just leave her alone today for the majority of the day, if I don't hear anything text her something later "hows work?", or text her a slight appology about last night?

    Help appreciated guys!

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    Default Re: May have killed GF's attraction in me, what to do?

    dont apologize yourself, keep giving the image that its her fault and you dont need that. Picture that you dont like discussions and that you have other things going on in your life. A more peacful way is to learn pandora box and do cold reading to impress her and showing you that you are impredictable

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    Default Re: May have killed GF's attraction in me, what to do?

    while with her, do one of my kiss closes. They are tested and they mix emotional and sexual connection. Check my profile and read them

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    Default Re: May have killed GF's attraction in me, what to do?

    Thanks bmr_id for the responses. I agree with you about the don't appologize for yourself. However I'm not sure about your advice on doing kiss closes and attraction gambits in this particular situation. She's my girlfriend... I don't need a kiss close, we kiss each other all the time, and sleep with each other all the time.

    I think where I fall short sometimes is that I become the "nice guy" to quickly even though I don't mean to, and it backfires on me.

    So in this case, what way would you guys suggest I handle her? Act distant myself? Be there for her but just not all the time? Etc..? I'm really not into game playing, but something has to be done here to salvage this. Luckily, she did text me this morning with a simple "good morning" which is a good sign all is not lost after last night..

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    Default Re: May have killed GF's attraction in me, what to do?

    well kiss closes sometimes are useful because the way you do it makes it a special moment. when i have trouble in a relationship i kind of do this in a methaphorical way "If you give me what i want, ill make you feel special and i will suprise you, if you dont give me what i want, there are plenty of girls that would like to be in your place". What i suggest is a bit of distance to kind of "make her think about the past", that you love her but there are limits. Normally i use jealousy, or run Mystery's Method (DEFINITLY BUY IT, ticket to a way better lifestill, a friend of my family bought it for me in the past) Attraction phase all over again, so she can remember i'm still the alpha i was when we began a relationship

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    Default Re: May have killed GF's attraction in me, what to do?

    sorry to the viewers about the reference to mystery's method. its not an advert, just what i use as base in the game


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