Met a lady on POF.....convo has been good...there has been flirting and some sexual tension. When I got that I went for a number close and bombed. She is still chatting w/ me but if I don't get # close soon I'm afraid I will fall into the friendship zone. She has expressed interest in meeting next week for a drink. Below is the text where I asked for the number. I followed T-Mal's advice....

ME: Ohhhh, That would be a meal to remember.....

BTW- we've been chatting for a couple days now, & you don't seem like the traditional stalker type.

AND.... I see a bit of a witty, goofy, somewhat "sassy" side about you. You don't mention it in your profile, but your eyes TOTALLY give it away.

That said, I'm leaning towards being OK with exchanging digits with you.

But.... there's one burning question which must be answered first.....

HER: Looking for burn ointment . ?

ME: See....I was correct....you do have a sassy side of you......Well HER NAME, that question would be: What's your number? ~ heehee!

And just for fun, what was the first concert you ever attended?

HER: Ozzy what was yours

When she balked I didn't ask her for her # again....I thought if I did I would come off as needy....what advice does anyone have to go for the # close again??....This exchange was from 2 days ago....

Thx