Ok in the last year i have dated 4 girls. I have struck out on 3 of them and I'm currently striking out on the fourth. That is why I'm here, I'm tired of only getting tail once in a blue moon.
This is what is going on. I have been seeing this girl for the last 3 weeks. We have really only had about 3 dates. For the last date we watched a movie at her apartment. We watched it in her bed but only because she doesn't have a couch, and she made sure we used it like a couch too... So i was all exited about this date because it was finally my opportunity to k-close her. Of course I got all excited about this and blew it up in my mind since I'm a chump.Once the movie was done I went for it and she was waiting for it! We kissed for a while and I felt no spark or passion which was weird and unattractive(for both of us I assume). So we stop and talk a bit. She brings something negative about her looks and I respond like a dumb ass "I think you are beautiful." She gets upset and says she does't like compliments, and that I barely know her. I open my fat mouth again by saying that i meant physically (which i think was the wrong thing to say).We start talking about other things again and she brings up past guys she has dated that all have been losers and then compares me to one... Then we change the subject again and I notice shes keeps on looking down at my lips so I take this as "oh she wants to kiss me." So I roll her on her back and make out a little. When we are done she gets up and says it's time for u to go. So i head for the door collect my stuff and then go in for the kiss goodbye. She makes sure its only a quick kiss and then patted me on my lower back and said "ok" (which to me felt like a get the hell out). I then said good way to make things awkward and then imitated her by patting her back. She kind gave of a self conscious laugh and I left.
Ok so since then i txted her once "just used the word faux pas in a convo!" (a word she taught me the night we kissed). She responds 19min later with "congratulations ! Ill make an english major out of you yet!" to which i replied 15 min later "and I dont have to pay 8k a semester!" to which she has given no response.
It now has been two days since the date and one day since the txt. I know there is probably no hope of recovering from this so at the moment I'm thinking fark it and will try anything to see what results i get and then start with a new girl until I get better at this.
Any advice how I could recover? And advice on what I did wrong and why? What could I have done differently?