Re: Openers get blown out
I'd say your friend was right about it being a bit too harsh. Negging is more for girls who get testy with you. It's meant to knock down a girl who thinks her $hit don't stink a notch. It's more for you to gain power in a situation where a girl is either talking down to you or acting like she is above you. Girls like this are looking for that guy who has the balls to go toe to toe. This will probably not work on a girl who is genuinely friendly. Many good looking girls are actually very friendly, so you don't really need to neg them. Teasing them is ok. It's to find that fine line between teasing and jabbing (negging).
Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!