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    Default Talking to Multiple Girls, Getting No Where

    Ok, whats up forum.. I feel its time for me to enter the community and step up my game. It's been at least a few months since I've been laid, before that its been a while. I've been eating better and hitting the gym and brushing up on my game. Reading the book by Neil "The Game" and watching Mystery Method and reading some of the forums. I feel like I am getting my confidence back.

    Theres this one girl from the gym who I have a no strings attached thing going on with. We've been texting like every day for a month, i would say i initiate most of it, but she is extremely responsive. Shes been over a few times and when we are chillin and drinking i throw on some porn and then we start messing around. She wanted to have sex the first time, but I told her it wasnt a good idea. for some reason I lose respect for these bitches who have sex on the first night and never used to want to talk to them again. maybe now that I am 31 I can get over that. Some people say just go for it, cuz why not. I am beginning to think the same but not sure.

    The second time we hung out she was super wasted while we were messing around. She said she wanted to fuck then too but I said she was too wasted. When we are sober i send her sexual texts like ive never done with any girl and she is responsive. I told her that I want to get some action with my dick and she thinks that is going to change things too much. Kinda pisses me off that i finger her and her ass and suck on her titties n makeout and i cant get any action with my shit ya know. haha

    We hung out again a few nights ago, but when I tried to kiss her she didnt really want to kiss. I must not be escalating properly and she only really gets down when we are drinking. I dont want to be an emtotional tampon and be friend zoned here. I think next chance I get I am going to lay her no matter how I feel.

    Also, talking to a few other chicks. One latina came over to my house and was acting controlling as fuck. She wasnt impressed with my house or where I live and said she didnt want to see each other anymore. Then she texted me a couple nights ago and I eventually asked her if she was out by herself or with friends. She said she is on a date and it was going good. I was like cool, then I told her that I had a latina over at my house last night(this is the first girl i mentioned) and she got pissed. Even though she was on a date that was supposedly going good shes like.. Fuck that ugly bitch, she aint hot like me, she dont have an ass like me. she then sent me a couple pics of her ass and I told her that Im not going to compare. Shes like sayin all this shit then next day apologized.

    Now I started texting her some sexual shit too like the first one and not responsive to it, but she is still responding to other stuff I send.

    Texting a few other girls, trying to set up shit with them but its not going to well. They seem kinda boring. But I have been getting excellent at getting numbers and wayy better at texting.

    Tonight I tried going out by myself to work on some field techniques, but got pissed because the bars in my area on chicago south side fucking blow and were half empty. I was there by myself and felt like a creeper and didnt know what to say.

    Just wanted to put this out there and see if anyone has any suggestions. I know I need to make a cheat sheet and get some props and peacocking gear. I need to work on rehearsing some openers but wanted to get out there tonight. That lasted all of 20 minutes, then I left like a pussy.

    Any help is appreciated!

    AU_GET_LAID

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    Default Re: Talking to Multiple Girls, Getting No Where

    I'm not seeing any specific question. You are making progress though so congrats.
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    Ok, I know I haven't really been speciffic with a question. Just kinda feel like I am losing shit with this girl from the gym.

    I know she works weekends and stuff, I feel like I am possibly coming off as too needy because I am usually the one to initiate conversation. I've deleted her number and entire thread a couple times in my phone to resist texting her.

    Ex, thanksgiving night, I hinted at her coming over for a sleepover more than a few times. like hey before you go to bed just come over here. she had fam over and said she didnt want to leave them.

    next night(last night) I said hey wanna chill, she said I would motherfuckin love to but she said her sisters kids are over there. her sister is in hospital, something bad happened. she really didnt respond too much after except at 12:45 am sayin she is dead tired.

    today, I sent her a text sayin hey if ur goin to gym, lets go to subway after, itll be the time of your life. no response yet.

    should I tell her that I would like her to put more of an effort into hangin out with me? I know she works all weekend but I wanna be like yo, I been tryin to hang out with you, now its your turn to try n hang out with me. I know that I probably shouldnt verbalize that. I prob need to focus on these other 4 girls Im texting and get some of them to meet, but im having trouble. me n gym girl click really well n i love her personality. fuck.

    i dont want to feel this way about one chick right now. especially one who isnt looking for a relationship or anything more than friends with me. even though we mess around and she prob wants to hav sex with other people. i need to make her want to have sex with me. maybe i should take a few days off and let her be, but in my opinion that may cause things to go cold.

    what do you guys think I should do with GymGirl?

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    Default Re: Talking to Multiple Girls, Getting No Where

    Do NOT verbalize that it is her turn to put more effort in lol. Everything you do has to be genuine. If you give her the feeling that you are keeping score then she could start to as well and you don't want that.

    Not understanding why you'd invite her on Thanksgiving night. I know for me, I was too tired from Turkeyitis to even move, let alone get all dressed up pretty to meet a girl. You set yourself up with that one my friend. Her next flake sounds pretty genuine and you don't want to punish her for that by telling her that you have been trying to hang out and she refuses.

    It's just unfortunate because if she does want to genuinely hang out then you have sent out too many invites which shows that you are too available. If you invite at the last minute, you can't do it two days in a row. I'm just imagining when a women did that with me. I knew that when she tried the very next day I knew I had her, so then I'd go for the more difficult woman and use the easy one as backup if I couldn't make plans.

    Build up your prizability. Freeze her out for a week. Then pick it up again. Work on your push/pull when you talk to her. Give her the feeling that you are just within reach, but she can never catch you.
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    Default Re: Talking to Multiple Girls, Getting No Where

    Ok cool, ill respond in more detail when u get home. Omw to gym now. Should I apologize n be like hey sorry I just wanted to catch up? I prob should just be cool if I see her at gym n be friendly n playful. If she diesnt bring up subway invite I won't either. I gotta freeze it out like u say. We hav already hung out 2x thus week. I'm such a noob. This sound good?

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    Default Re: Talking to Multiple Girls, Getting No Where

    She jus text me n said she is goin to gym.. that's a good sign.


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