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    Default Epic fail on fail on fail

    So im a good looking guy and im fun and am not too shabby at getting numbers, meeting girls, and I have a slew of women networked i.feel I can fuck built up from the relationship I just got out of. Only problem is, I get the girl to my house, a party, daye etc and cant fucking close the deal. I get awkward, i dont know what moves or what to say to initiate anything and then I go and loose the chick's interest in the coming days because I was.so much of an awkward pussy with sex on my mind to get laid. I left my x 3 months ago and havent been laid sense. Literally a chick I sarged at the gas station came to watch a movie with me and just left and I didnt even get a fucki.g kiss! Helllllp! Haha what do I do once she gets here and I start the movie? Any advice?

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    Default Re: Epic fail on fail on fail

    You f@cking kiss her!

    Seriously dude, this is not that complicated. It amazes me how much some people can overcomplicate things.

    Think of it this way. You want to be the guy who has plenty of sex. So in order to do that, you have to act like the guy who has plenty of sex (why? Because that guy gets plenty of sex!) Does that guy freak out when he's about to get some? No. He plays it cool. You can freak out all you want, but keep it on the inside. Just play it cool.

    The key here is to control the frame. Its a tenet of Pick Up. You stay strong in what you want. If you want to kiss her, do it. If it's normal to you, it'll be normal to her.
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    Default Re: Epic fail on fail on fail

    Agree with bandit... But until then try getting a routine that you run once you get them inside. Heres mine...

    Me: hey let me introduce you to the love of my life (gesturing to my room)
    Her: ok (wondering if ive got my gf in there haha)
    Me: meet liz (my bearded dragon, i take her out and make her hold it)

    This is a great chance to build kino and an emotional connection

    Me: ok shes getting cold let me out her back (she spots my drumset)
    Her: your a drummer? How cool!
    Me: yeah for years, can give you lessons some day if you want.. Oh check this out.. Ive got this hilarious program on my computer. (open photobooth on my mac, this progran distorts your face and its farking hilarious, take pics together and in one of the pics kiss her cheek)
    Me: k your turn! (point at your cheek and take pic while she kisses it)

    Turn to her.. Look at her lips with bedroom eyes and lean in for it... From there it should be a done deal.

    Obviously your routine will be quite different but you get what Im saying.

    Good luck player.

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    Default Re: Epic fail on fail on fail

    You gotta work on kino, dont be afraid to touch them

    here, read this http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ino-guide.html
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    Default Re: Epic fail on fail on fail

    Just finished the kino guide and I must say note taken! I can see how important it is. im going to start putting this into effect today and.everyday after and hopefully I just start doing it without thinking. And I dig the take pictures idea. Im going to implement that the next time I get a woman over. I need to find a good app on my phone. So would you guys suggest just canning the whole come over and watch a movie thing? And just make it a hangout instead?

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    Default Re: Epic fail on fail on fail

    Definitely get comfortable with touching her. I describe it like this...

    If you were to rub your arm for 30 seconds then remove your hand, then that part of your arm would become a different temperature than the rest of your arm. First it is hot, then becomes a bit colder. Like it is more sensitive now. It sort of feels like a phantom hand is still there even though there is nothing. This is how she should think of your touch. That it is awkward WITHOUT you touching her. The kiss should never feel like a big moment, but a small step.

    This means working your way up and getting in close to her face, then pulling back. (push/pull) Then smelling her neck while you breath on it. When you pull away her neck will be freezing and she will want your warmth again. The back and forth will frustrate her, in a good way, and it's very likely she will just get on with it and jump your bones. Have fun with it. Have in your head," I know it's going to happen, but I want to have fun with her before we do anything." Jedi mind shit man.
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    Default Re: Epic fail on fail on fail

    Here are two routines I use quite regularly:

    1. Get a big cheeky smile, give her bedroom eyes and laugh a little. When she asks you "What?" Tell her you have a secret, but you don't think you can tell her. She will probably try to convince you to tell her if she has any attraction towards you (which if she is alone in your house she probably does). Think a second, and tell her okay. Put your index finger under her chin, bring your head to the side as if you are going to whisper in her ear (make sure your breath hits her ear) and say "I want to kiss you" and then get the kiss. Your hand is already in an ideal position to pull her in.

    2. Say you are standing up, cooking, etc. Same deal, stand a step or two back. Give her the big cheeky smile with the bedroom eyes. Keep the bedroom eyes locked into hers and tell her to come to you. Put your arm around the small of her back and the other on the side of her neck to pull her in.

    You were in a relationship so the mechanics of the kiss should come naturally to you. These are both kind of gambits, unlike mystery's kiss method (which is gold) but I prefer high-risk high-reward technique.
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    Default Re: Epic fail on fail on fail

    I like this approach. Now I just need to pull it off with confidence. Which I think goes back to starting with kino and being alpha if im taking this in right. Im not making her feel comfortable at all because im a thinking about sex. Like I laid on the couch while she.sat up behind me with no physical contact. Felt like a loser last night. But just sarged a couple girls on the way to work today that made me feel a lot better. Going to write a field report soon. Sadly I dont own a laptop, just a smartphone, but as mack miller.says.GOTTA WORK WITH WHAT YA GOT!

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    Default Re: Epic fail on fail on fail

    I an on updating this thursday when i go on a date i have set up with an hb6. She isnt the greatest looking but ill get some practice. She' s new to LA and im low on cash so im taking her to explore downtown LA weds. Im going to kino like a mofo, get her giggling, do the photo op and close this kiss

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