Re: Epic fail on fail on fail
Definitely get comfortable with touching her. I describe it like this...
If you were to rub your arm for 30 seconds then remove your hand, then that part of your arm would become a different temperature than the rest of your arm. First it is hot, then becomes a bit colder. Like it is more sensitive now. It sort of feels like a phantom hand is still there even though there is nothing. This is how she should think of your touch. That it is awkward WITHOUT you touching her. The kiss should never feel like a big moment, but a small step.
This means working your way up and getting in close to her face, then pulling back. (push/pull) Then smelling her neck while you breath on it. When you pull away her neck will be freezing and she will want your warmth again. The back and forth will frustrate her, in a good way, and it's very likely she will just get on with it and jump your bones. Have fun with it. Have in your head," I know it's going to happen, but I want to have fun with her before we do anything." Jedi mind shit man.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."