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    andybmuzik is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default how to tell......

    I have this friend that ive talked to all the time..we go out and have fun after a couple of weeks we had sex..but then a couple of days after ive noticed everything going downhill..like less contacting..less texting..and hanging out..i havent seen her in 3 weeks and on thanksgiving she texted me (happy thanksgiving)...

    Is she just looking for attention..if so how can i tell what are some key factors?

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    manunited000 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: how to tell......

    Hey buddy, I reckon that two things might have happened:

    1. She feels awkward now that you two have slept together and she's not really sure where you stand. This is more likely if she is a long time friend as opposed to someone that you recently met. In this case, there is obviously attraction however, I don't think that she's interested in an LTR at the moment.

    2. It was just a one time thing, and she's cool with where you stand. Doesn't really explain why she's seeing you less but, hey, people do weird things sometimes!

    I don't think that she's seeking attention but, I don't really know your guys' background. Just keep your Alpha frame, and you'll be fine!

    Cheers,
    Nova

    "It ain't about how hard you can hit. It's about how hard you can be hit and keep moving forward"

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    IDGiaccobbie is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: how to tell......

    I agree with ManUnited, she might now feel awkward. Something else that it might be is that she might now feel like you are a bit closer than she did before. Even if girls don't want to, they feel a much closer connection after having sex with you due to hormones like oxytocin and vasopressin. After you sleep with them things sometimes change like this and they feel that you two have gotten a bit closer, especially if you two are still in college. This is a bit different for older women.

    As far as her texting you, I would say that she wants to reinitiate contact. I would definitely take that as a sign telling you to talk to her again.


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