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  1. #1
    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Alpha Female against a Freshman PUA

    Gents, I am calling for a lifeline. All of this occurs over a 3 week period.

    A HB 8-9 hits me up on POF. We move to texting, all goes well. I make a few Beta mistakes, but they are recovered nicely. One of the mistakes was our first sitdown she had me to come see her on her lunch hour. She chose the time and place. It was a little dinner joint by her work. I had coffee but she ate a full lunch. I paid.

    Text game continues from there and again, my wing says I get an A- for it. I have gotten some insanely strong IOIs from her. Last week I was out 4 times gaming and every time it was some high profile social event so I made sure when she texted me I sent photos and played games like name that club. ( I am in Los Angeles ).

    We did have an official date planned for last Saturday and she claims she got sick. I followed all PUA rules and it come off great. Once she was feeling better I appropriately brought in the idea of going out again and she kind of side steps it. I dont push, then after a few more attempts I finally tell her that I dont want a pen pal relationship. she needs to call me. She is a little thrown off, makes some jokes, etc...

    After last night is where I need the help. We make plans to talk on the phone around 8:30. she knows I am out with a friend. Around 8:15 I get this super long text about how wonderful a person I am, how in December she does a lot of traveling and that timing is off, blah blah blah. I realize a few mistakes I had made at that point.

    1. A touch of oneitus.
    2. I did push a little too hard on the relationship but this girl was giving some mad ioi's Sex talk and the whole bit.
    3. a little too much of giving her immediate attention. I was happy when I got a message from her and got thrown off my game.

    After this hits me I realize I messed it up and decide to move on. To the long winded text I respond that it was nice to meet her and to get to know her and that I hope everything works out for her in life. She responds with thanks you too.

    a few hours later I get some texts from her.

    She knows I go to vegas a lot for work and asks if in january I will be there for an event.

    I tell her I am not sure why?
    She tells me she will be there then. ( she does not give an invitation to meet or any ioi's )
    in the same text she asks me if I have female freinds.

    I tell her I have many and ask why.

    Her: she says that she thinks because she is female I didnt want to be freinds with her.

    The one of two mistakes I made last nigth started here. I said it would be nice to be freinds. - I got no response.

    She says it is late and then mentions a social event that is coming up soon. and says good night

    I respond with good night.

    5 minutes later she asks me if I have facetime. Then she relates that she wants to show me something sexual ( referring back to some of our earlier texts )

    Mistake number 2 I actually forgot that I have an ipad at that moment. Mother Fing brain failing me!!!! I have never used it for facetime so it didn't click. told her android only,

    She says good night and I dont respond.

    I am out of my league on this one. I like this girl but I also like the success I have been having elsewhere. Thoughts on how to proceed???? I realize that the last conversation she threw out a few hooks to try and keep me. I am thinking a freeze out for a few days then an invite to something small like coffee or a walk for next weekend.

    Stitches

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    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Alpha Female against a Freshman PUA

    I am reading up before game night here. Found the answer to my own question.

    http://www.puaforums.com/dating-advi...igure-out.html

    You guys are awesome.

    Stitches

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    Anuks is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Alpha Female against a Freshman PUA

    Personally I think you are reading too much into this. I think if you just assumed attraction and laid back a bit she would come chasing you.

    She seems to be giving good iois and is getting back to you with sexual inuendos.

    Go meet other woman and have fun, and then if you feel like it, invite her into your abundant lifestyle of fun, with no agenda. Be outcome independent.

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    Default Re: Alpha Female against a Freshman PUA

    You need to hit the reset button. ignore her for a few times. respond only when she says she misses you and is wondering why she hasn't heard from you. maintain a casual relationship then let her do the escalating until you'll are having sex, then resume the relationship as usual. don't make the first move!

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    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Alpha Female against a Freshman PUA

    Quote Originally Posted by sosa View Post
    You need to hit the reset button. ignore her for a few times. respond only when she says she misses you and is wondering why she hasn't heard from you. maintain a casual relationship then let her do the escalating until you'll are having sex, then resume the relationship as usual. don't make the first move!
    Great ideas thanks guys. I waited 6 days and sent a text asking how her thanksgiving was. She tried to call 3 minutes later. I actually didnt catch it as I was in a busy workshop. Ill update how the frame reset goes. End of the day I have to stay alpha.

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    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Alpha Female against a Freshman PUA

    You guys are genius. Total success, worked like a charm. I am holding the frame pretty good on this now.

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    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


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