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    Default Re: RB - Frame control

    Exactly.

    So many guys think you have to answer super quick, and sarcastically. Sometimes you can take a couple seconds to think before u answer... and texting allows you a ton of extra time to answer.

    For me, if i'm stuck on how to answer i'll just give a look that says "are u being serious? Because that was lame." And i will also say that. By the time they process it, you can follow up with something more direct.

    Frame control is not hard, tricky yes, but not hard. Silence is your main weapon. If you get tested, silence will make her feel awkward.

    Hb "You arent my type."

    SILENCE + plus sarcastic look

    Pua "Are you always this rude to friendly people?"

    That little silence speaks very loudly to women. They thrive on communication. Withholding that is powerful and also drives up the tension.
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    Default Re: RB - Frame control

    Great stuff. Thanks for your collective wisdom RB.

    I got this theory... Life is what it is, and it's up to you to choose how to look at it. That's your frame. Everybody's got their own, but sometimes they accept partially or fully another's frame. You can let other people define you, accept their frame, or you can be a free individual. An alpha male. You define yourself. You set the frame and keep it. The whole game is a sh1t test. Women rate you 0-1 alpha beta. If you control the frame you win. Never say I'm out of her league, I'm a loser, I'm AFC. That's letting others define you. Know your value. Set your own frame. You are beautiful.

    Deep stuff RB i read this thread recently and i immediately noticed it at play so much. this goes beyond women. Frame is literally the meaning of life, it is what you make it, trippy sh1t lol

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    Btw I never remember what the makeup opener was. Care to elaborate?

    I like bringing up old threads heheh
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    Default Re: RB - Frame control

    Silence is the key. How you handle it like the look you're talking about can be great but depending on the girl it can be a bad thing. Just holding silence like you're still listening makes it seem like you're still waiting for the good part. Most people will either continue or stop and feel self concious about what they said. They don't register the thought that you might not know how to respond. But with lockdown's advice it gives you an angle. Personally i let the awkwardness hit them like i'm expecting more. I like that i'm controling the situation effortlessly. This is a great tool to even amogs i believe because it means you have more patience and will power to hold back. I think of this frame as more of the poker face. Which is kind of what its all about in conversation. You don't want to show your card when you know you could potentially lose easily knowing they are likely to have the upper hand.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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