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    rfjammer is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Girl is hard work to f close? Any suggestions

    There is this one girl who I think at one stage i had oneitis on, but in some ways that's starting to fade. However she is "smart", or I am dumb and she has kept me interested without actually putting out. She puts time constraints on things and push pulls me quicker than I can do it to her. She is getting more interested (spending more time with me, more iois, more kino) as time goes by but it's a slooooow process.

    We have seen each other five times so far, but for the first three we could only k close as we were out and about in town and had to go our separate ways. Got her back to mine a fortnight ago and yeah we kissed etc etc a lot but she clearly wasn't comfortable taking it further than that and we had very little time. Had her round again today and again loads of kissing etc. She then drops a time constraint on the evening saying she has to go at about 10, I said very casually that she could stay round and she fairly forcefully said "I am not staying here tonight, I have to be up early tomorrow", I played it cool and said that's fine, she cracks on to me again and then at the allotted time she ups and leaves.

    Two questions really. 1) how the hell do I get her round to mine on a week night, she and I both seem to have more time during the week, 2) how do I break through her barriers (I'm not even sure they are barriers really).

    Oh and I know the go to advice is to game other girls, and I am, in fact f closed on Thursday, but I am keen to see where I can get to with this girl. At the very least it'll be a learning experience.

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    Default Re: Girl is hard work to f close? Any suggestions

    Freeze her out for a bit (a few days or a week or two), then start over at A2
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    Default Re: Girl is hard work to f close? Any suggestions

    I just posted this today, may not give you solutions, but should give some insight

    http://www.puaforums.com/dating-advi...igure-out.html
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