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    Default Unexpected friendzone!

    so I went out with an HB9 last night and It went well, I was charming funny and we kissed about 3 times and again at the end of the night for about 20 minutes in my car with a bit of fumbling as well...

    I then get this the next morning

    "you're great I just felt like I was more out with a mate that's all"

    WTF? I don't know what she does with her mates but I don't normally get to second second base with mine?

    I'm kind of pissed because if it had been the case that I'd not escalated then that would have been fine and I could have slapped myself, learn and moved on but I fail to see how you can escalate further than sticking a finger in lol

    could use some help/ advice here

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    Default Re: Unexpected friendzone!

    Don't accept her frame, she trying to control your relationship to make you just friends something like "yeah, we are friends, but friends don't put each other in boxes, we should just let things happen as they do" - Credit to Red Baron for this.
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    Default Re: Unexpected friendzone!

    I've been going out with this hot girl for two weeks started out by her friend opening me commenting and touching my tat i played it like i was after her friend well she kept coming around and eventually i got her digits the problem is she has an orbiter with her needless to say i pushed a lil too hard and ended up on line of friendzone so i did an abrupt freeze out im waiting to see how it goes

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    Default Re: Unexpected friendzone!

    Somebody syphr this text for me! I just dont want u to get the wrong feelin for me! Is this def friendzone?

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    Default Re: Unexpected friendzone!

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    so I went out with an HB9 last night and It went well, I was charming funny and we kissed about 3 times and again at the end of the night for about 20 minutes in my car with a bit of fumbling as well...

    I then get this the next morning

    "you're great I just felt like I was more out with a mate that's all"

    WTF? I don't know what she does with her mates but I don't normally get to second second base with mine?

    I'm kind of pissed because if it had been the case that I'd not escalated then that would have been fine and I could have slapped myself, learn and moved on but I fail to see how you can escalate further than sticking a finger in lol

    could use some help/ advice here
    Brother, chicks say one thing and do others. You are definitely not friend zoned if you made out with her last night. Tell her

    "Yea, I get the same feeling. Kind of like kissing my sister...yuck " She's trying to get a reaction out of it. So react in a way that is consistent with your alpha behaviour that got you there in the first place.

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    Default Re: Unexpected friendzone!

    Quote Originally Posted by DallasDmaxx View Post
    Somebody syphr this text for me! I just dont want u to get the wrong feelin for me! Is this def friendzone?
    Tell her you only see her as a friend. Disqualify her. I've been doing that and it's working well.

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    Default Re: Unexpected friendzone!

    Basically agree but escalate anyway. I personally would not respond via text. Wait to do it in person so she can see your indifferent look when u tell her "friend? Whoa whoa... who says i know u that well? Im just not friends with anyone!"

    Then escalate as usual. Keep up the'friendly' behavior lol
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    Default Re: Unexpected friendzone!

    Thanks guys for shedding some light on this! Last weekend i flipped her jealous switch we were hanging out in my truck and i got out to talk to my friends some guy she went to school with drove up so she started talking to him so this other girl had pulled beside of me in a bug and i said I've never sat in a bug so she said get in well i did and instantly marissa came back over and stood right beside of the car girl in the bug was having me smell her air freshner by holding it up to my nose my wingman said Marissa's face went instantly down and she started fidgeting her hands! So according to mystery's book jealousy switch was flipped! How do i get rid of her orbiter?

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    Default Re: Unexpected friendzone!

    Quote Originally Posted by DallasDmaxx View Post
    i pushed a lil too hard and ended up on line of friendzone so i did an abrupt freeze out im waiting to see how it goes

    I had a woman over Wednesday night, she attempted to friendzone me and now she's in freeze out. Woman hate the freeze out just like us men hate the dreaded friendzone.


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