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    Default Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    An example is given in the book "the mystery method".

    You: [Finishing a DHV]
    Her: So what's your name? [IOI]
    You: [Ignoring her question] Are you an intuitive person?
    Her: Yes, very much so! [Hook!]
    You: Let me see your hand.
    Her: [She complies.]
    You: [Stroking your finger down her palm.] Interesting.... [Throw
    her hand away.]
    Her: Wait, what? Can you read palms? [Chasing]
    You: [Taking her hand again.] See this line? This is the retard line; it
    means you're a retard. [Hug her.]

    My question is, why "ignoring her question"? What's the point?

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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    You avoid or ignore certain questions to leave a mysterious feel to your presence. It adds attraction due to her not knowing certain things about you. You don't HAVE to be mysterious, but it is just a tactic that helps if you are good at it. However, if you are mysterious, you have to stay mysterious. Scumming to tell her things about you will be a turn off. Also, your body language has to follow your tonality and approach and mysterious appeal.

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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    But I'm afraid that you may have your target have a bad/negative feeling if you ignore her question.

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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    But do u see how mystery did it? He made the conversation more interesting so she didnt care.

    I Usually give a joke answer and then tell her my real name. Or accuse her of being a stalker. Anything that makes her work for it will do. That way u dont look needy
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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    Yea these guys are right. It also comes down to hoop theory. If she gives you a hoop and you easily jump through it, you are implying that she is either higher or of equal value to you. But by ignoring her question you are sub-communicating that you are higher value to her and could care less if she knows your name.

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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    I like that Anuks... hoop theory. Is that yours? Perfect way to word it.
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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    No Lockdown, it also comes from Mystery Method.

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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    What if the target thinks you are rude because you ignore her question?

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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    Quote Originally Posted by jingfunny View Post
    What if the target thinks you are rude because you ignore her question?
    Then you're doing it wrong. Im quite sure it is a more advanced trick, but the only way to get it is to practice.

    If you ever see an opportunity to try something new, TAKE IT. The more you expose yourself to new things, the better you become.

    Rejection is GOOD. you learn what you do wrong. if you look at it that way, then you'll like trying new things. Most misconceptions guys have is that being rejected is associated with a negative gut feeling. If you associate it with learning, your brain will condition to like trying new things.
    its how your brain works. your brain connects stimuli to emotions. Thats pavlov's dogs. thats not touching a hot stove. thats basic learning. Try it out and see how it goes!

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    Default Re: Why ignoring her question:Mystery method

    Quote Originally Posted by jingfunny View Post
    What if the target thinks you are rude because you
    ignore her question?
    Did this ACTUALLY happen or are u just worrying about it? Dont sabatoge yourself with over analyzing. Just do it!

    Trust me, the worst i have gotten is her rolling her eyes at me. I followed that up with a neg that she might be a stalker so im careful about revealing info. Worked out well from there
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