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Thread: Day 2, Need this to go right.

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    Red face Day 2, Need this to go right.

    I met a really cute girl At an event this Friday. I was completely in the zone, I had all sorts of social proof, And was not seen without some girl holding my arm throughout most of the night. I had that Aura. I was impressed with myself For escalating Kino Correctly which resulted And what I think was A pretty sweet kiss close. She was the one that initiated The number close. I was very careful to make sure that we had Actual plans to meet up Before I gave her my number and took hers. She seemed concerned that I might not call. At the end of the night I got a sweet hug, But she was unwilling to kiss me again. Perhaps because we were in the middle of the club. I handled that well, i think. Like I said, My game was really on all night. She did mention that at one point, That I would be paying for everything on the first date. (So she is planning more than one?) Not really my policy, But she just wanted to go to a juice bar anyway. Incidentally, She chose a place very close to my house, And she knew it. Which I took as a Indicator of potential sex on first date.
    Of course I very playfully suggested That she should take me home, Or come home with me that night. You studies psychology and is pretty hard to read, But from the way her eyes stayed fixed on me, I feel very strongly that I successfully attracted her. I have become an opening machine, yett lately I have had a real sticking point with closing the deal once I get them to my house. Perhaps because I am so busy Telling them all about myself and dazzling them with my creative accomplishments, Instead of really focusing on her And moving while the light is still green .. I guess I have a little anxiety about that right now. I think that I am getting too comfortable When I should be pushing those limits. Am interested in any feedback, Specially about phase shifting And trigger pulling. My game has increased so much lately, But I Need some advanced techniques Or reading this one.

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    Default Re: Day 2, Need this to go right.

    Okay, nobody answers on this site? Where are the experts. I guess their too busy getting laid. Thanks for nothing.

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    Default Re: Day 2, Need this to go right.

    By no means I'm an expert but I'm going to participate here in case all the pros are out sarging so you don't feel lonely. Few things here caught my attention:

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Jericho View Post
    I was very careful to make sure that we had Actual plans to meet up Before I gave her my number and took hers.
    Why? She wanted your number. Just call her up later and set a date.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Jericho View Post
    She seemed concerned that I might not call.
    Good. Keep her on her toes.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Jericho View Post
    At the end of the night I got a sweet hug, But she was unwilling to kiss me again. Perhaps because we were in the middle of the club.
    You met her, she initiated n-close, you k-closed, set future plans and then hung out with her the rest of the night? You need to be a challenge.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Jericho View Post
    She did mention that at one point, That I would be paying for everything on the first date. (So she is planning more than one?) Not really my policy, But she just wanted to go to a juice bar anyway. Incidentally, She chose a place very close to my house, And she knew it. Which I took as a Indicator of potential sex on first date.
    That was a sh1t test. Ignore it or make a joke about her small allowance. Do not get wussy here and say "ok".
    And this was not a date as far as I understood from your text. The 1st date would be when you call her up and set it. Besides, you choose the location and time.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Jericho View Post
    Of course I very playfully suggested That she should take me home, Or come home with me that night.
    I think you should have backed off and socialized with other people and/or changed venue after the n-close. You come off way too eager and even indecisive as you "made sure you two have actual plans before giving out your number".

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Jericho View Post
    I have become an opening machine, yett lately I have had a real sticking point with closing the deal once I get them to my house. Perhaps because I am so busy Telling them all about myself and dazzling them with my creative accomplishments.
    Don't brag. You can nonchalantly advertise your good qualities in case they come up in a discussion. Farking up is much harder when you let the girls do the talking. Just get them to relax a bit and move in.

    My 2c.

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    Unhappy Re: Day 2, Need this to go right.

    Thanks a lot for all the input . I am really grateful . The girl didn't end up flaking on me today so you were right , I guess it wasn't really a real date . As far as the number clothes I was rolling with Matador, From mysteries crew With that one. I guess you don't think it was a good idea. I'm glad you brought that up. Separating useful from useless Is a huge part of Progressing . The girl , who turns out to be a yoga instructor Has continued to text me throughout the day . Then she started texting me telling me she was in bed drinking wine. I think we are up to about 80 text . And I have heard nailed down to what kind of food she likes . I asked her out for tomorrow and she says she has plans. I feel like I'm getting way too invested in this chick . But I don't have many options because I have to work a lot this week . I know that if I don't take her out soon I will blur into the past very quickly. I'm making sure not to respond to everyone of her text . I'm putting a time delay between responses . Honestly , I'm starting to lose my patience . So what do you think ? Is she just toying with me ? Like I said , she text me every day, But she has not called me . Should I just call her and set some limitations ? What are some good things that I can say To restore the value that I lost somewhere along the line . Should I invite her out with my pivot ? I have a really good one . In fact I've been kind of considering Making moves on her, But she is so useful as a pivot . I also work with her on a semi professional level Because I am in a band and I want her to sing in the group . I'm really proud of myself for not escalating Kino too much with her . But she is f*cking hot . It seems like she might actually make girlfriend material . I know , I'm getting all stuck in my head, But I'm having trouble figuring out which option to take. Please help!

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    Default Correction typo!

    So to reiterate the first couple lines . She did flake on me today. That's what I meant to say , We have not yet met up. Just to clarify.

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    Default Re: Day 2, Need this to go right.

    Just to emphasize, I'm myself very new to PUA concept even though I've learnt massively since I came aware of it. I'm seeing a lot of good results but still have massive gaps in my game. I'm happy to state my thoughts but I'm sure we will get more experienced knowledge to this thread when the big guys have a coffee break

    In my opinion, you care too much what she thinks of you. Girlfriend material? You've met her once. She could be a massive manipulating bitch for all you know.

    Personally, I do not send texts to set up dates. I call. This is also because my text game sucks if I don't know the person. I assume she didn't counteroffer when you asked (do not ask, TELL) her out. 80 texts since Friday? Dude, no. Way too available and eager. You have better things to do. You have a life.

    It's good that you're going to be busy. Be. Go on with your stuff and wait for her to call. Usually they will call you when they are sending texts and not getting a response. (What happened to this guy? Where did he go?) If she does, say that you're busy at the moment and you have to go to do some stuff. Then call her back after a while, maybe the next day or two. Or don't even pick up. If she doesn't call, I would call her one more time after a freeze out period and tell her that you're taking her out to xxxx at xx.xx on xxxxxx.

    If she refuses and does not counteroffer, forget her, delete the number and go talk to other girls.

    edit: Go meet new women anyway.

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    Default Re: Day 2, Need this to go right.

    This is all good stuff, But you misunderstood the part about her being girlfriend material. I was talking about my pivot. A totally different girl That I make music with. I'm trying not to think with my d*ck by not seducing her.

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    Default Re: Day 2, Need this to go right.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Jericho View Post
    This is all good stuff, But you misunderstood the part about her being girlfriend material. I was talking about my pivot. A totally different girl That I make music with. I'm trying not to think with my d*ck by not seducing her.
    Yes, my bad for linking these two.

    Can't really tell you what to do lol. If she's your friend and you want to advance there are a lot of good threads in here about it.


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