ok so when either facebookin a girl or texting them i usually struggle on to be flirty. might seem stupid but it's like the girls who text me/not interested in i can think of things right there on th spot and not have to think about it. However with th hotter girls i find myself sittin thinkin to much on what to say and how to flirt. sometimes if u can think of anything i wont even reply haha.

How do u guys do it? do u just think of stuff on the spot or does it come naturally in time?

Any pointers/tips/threads are appreciated . cheers