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    DizeI is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default can't keep conversation going...

    Hello people i have one problem when i talk to girls i can't relax and i cannot keep up with conversation... i am a college student pretty good looking i can meet girls but its really hard for me to tease them maybe because i dont know how to do that... please help with some original ideas or what you use!

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    Default Re: can't keep conversation going...

    There's a good starter technique that I think will help you. I don't really know the correct name for it, but the idea is that when you're talking to a girl, you switch between asking questions and making statements. I wrote a post about it here, look at this http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post69793
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    Default Re: can't keep conversation going...

    thanks, who else has more unique ideas?

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    Default Re: can't keep conversation going...

    practice meditation. this will help you silence the internal dialogue that's interfering with your "flow". once you can relax and do that consistently, it won't matter wether you're talking or not. you will just start to vibe with the girl and be normal. you don't have to force yourself into blabbering. just talk when you want to.

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    Default Re: can't keep conversation going...

    what i figure out today when i tried to meet girls at scool
    1. Use an opener
    2. Ask question something like "What are you guys up to?"
    3. And keep conversation rolling

    tell me if its right!

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    Default Re: can't keep conversation going...

    I'm with bri777.

    There's an author called Thich Nhat Hanh who's a Budhist monk and he writes on mediatation and mindfulness. Read one of his books on mindfulness - good stuff. Simple every day exercises to practice mindfulness.

    When you practice mindfulness, you silence your internal dialogue and keep a clear mind - just what you need so that you can be smooth with your dialogue and interaction.

    I must say that it's really helped me. Have a look at it and see how it goes.


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