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    al4445273 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Women text flirts but has a but has a bf, desperate help needed

    Ok this girl is a co-worker of mine. She gave me her phone number and weve been text flirting ever since. Next day she tells me she has a BF, which i was cool about, but WTF. After she invited me to hangout with her 1on1, and i was considering not showing up, but gave in at the end, there were a lot of IOI's but no kino during our outing, because we were sitting too far from each other. After we hung out, she kept sending me flirtatious texts, and i was getting the vibe that she really wants me and she's making it pretty obvious. I want to know whether she is just leading me on and just playing or has other motives(a.k.a sex). I know that she has a BF, but she keeps texting and hanging out with me alone, which is not something a girl with a BF should be doing in my opinion. Right now i don't want a girlfriend especially someone like her, but it would be nice for a one time fling. Were seeing each other again solo soon and i am trying to decide whether its even worth showing up because she might be just using me.

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    Default Re: Women text flirts but has a but has a bf, desperate help needed

    hey man,

    I would propose the following, call her out on it, if she tells you some story that her bf doesn't understand her bla bla bla, just tell her that you are need her to make her mind up before you can see her again.
    Even if you dont care about her bf still call her out on it so you know what she wants, a full blown affair or just sex?

    There is no way around that, unless you only want sex. if you don't call her out you will always wonder.

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    Default Re: Women text flirts but has a but has a bf, desperate help needed

    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    al4445273 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Women text flirts but has a but has a bf, desperate help needed

    Thanks, I am still wondering whether I should still kino and disqualify her on our outing, or what should I do in general?

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    Default Re: Women text flirts but has a but has a bf, desperate help needed

    Definitely, definitely kino and disqualify. I recently met a smoking hot girl, and didn't ask if she had a bf. A while later she called me out on it, and said she was seeing someone. I replied with "Thank God, I thought you were hitting on me". Her reply? "Maybe I was". There's a big turnon for a lot of girls that can find an alpha to steal her from an AFC BF. That's the mindset you need, if that's your intention. I showed that it didn't phase me that she had a bf, and worked my game in 3 consecutive nights which ended in an F-close. The key to it all was the kino.
    Talked to her yesterday after NC for 4-5 days, first thing she tells me is that things have progressed and she has a bf now. I congratulated her, then she asked me to watch a movie. I haven't even run a bf destroyer yet, but went to her room last night, hung out, laughed, and there was a TON of kino back and forth. I then excused myself for the night. We flirt a ton via text and I've exhibited a lot of DHV, she also knows there are several women in my life. In essence it's no different than the game you can run on any girl.

    Moral of the story, kino and disqualify. If she's spending time with you and talking to you, there's something that intrigues her about you. BF or not, avoid the friend zone with kino and disqualification. You're an alpha.


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