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Thread: Urgent advice needed about girl on my bus

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    Default Urgent advice needed about girl on my bus

    Hello,

    I need some help here because I think one girl likes me and maybe wants me to approach here..

    I first saw her on a bus and there was a lot of eye-contact. She also played with hair a bit.

    Then today, I saw here on the bus again.. I went from the bus on the same station as she and then overtake her. I tried to maintain the pace and keep the distance around 5 meters between us. She didn`t know what am I doing of course. I decided to play some "game" and test something. When a went right into another street I started to walk faster and after about 300 meters she was behind me at the same distance as before the right turn. At the end of that street I turned left and started to walk slower again. I was thinking she will overtake me because I was much slower than before but she didn`t! She kept the same distance for the whole way to the school. I found out that she is in the same school as I am lol..

    I need help here because I might see her tomorrow again and then obviously I have to do something about that.

    I need some advice about that... like what do you think, how to approach, what to say etc..

    Many thanks!

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    Default Re: Urgent advice needed about girl on my bus

    Hey man, if you made eye contact, you need to be cocky funny this time around. I read this opener from a member of this forum, did it last week at school and it worked wonders.

    Just approach, say Hi, confident smile. And then ask her if she is stalking you? This will create humour and you can go on to your funny/cocky routine. You can try to look up the thread for the exact lines. I just basically say:

    "Hey there. I see you all the time. I need to ask you something....Are you following me?" Smile and confident tone. They will usually say NOOOOOOOOO and start convo from there.

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    Default Re: Urgent advice needed about girl on my bus

    So you need an opener? Just a casual opener will do the job
    '' I see you almost everyday taking the same bus with me so I though to just say hi(opener). You presumably work/study/whatever, somewhere here(transition)''

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    Default Re: Urgent advice needed about girl on my bus

    Agreed with Fuser, "Hey there. I see you all the time. I need to ask you something....Are you following me?" Smile and confident tone. They will usually say NOOOOOOOOO and start convo from there

    Control the frame & tease, Later you can also add T-Mal's N- Close, "You don't seem like the regular stalker type so i may be willing to exchange digits with you, However there is one burning question that needs to be answered first....."

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    Default Re: Urgent advice needed about girl on my bus

    I`ve been thinking something along the lines..

    "Hey, Can I ask you something.. not sure if this is coincidence or destiny but why do I see you behind me everytime I go to school and look back (making it funny of course)"


    I don`t like the idea of number closing at first talking. Well.. I will see how the convo goes and how she reacts on my behaviour. If all goes well, I will probably include some playful words like.. "so when are you taking that bus again? I have to prepare for you looking at my ass again .. and then when we meet the next time I might "push" her a little forward and say lets make it vice-versa now, and later I would go for the n-close and maybe ask for a drink

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    Default Re: Urgent advice needed about girl on my bus

    Quote Originally Posted by lukyyy View Post
    I`ve been thinking something along the lines..

    "Hey, Can I ask you something.. not sure if this is coincidence or destiny but why do I see you behind me everytime I go to school and look back (making it funny of course)"


    I don`t like the idea of number closing at first talking. Well.. I will see how the convo goes and how she reacts on my behaviour. If all goes well, I will probably include some playful words like.. "so when are you taking that bus again? I have to prepare for you looking at my ass again .. and then when we meet the next time, I would go for the n-close and maybe ask for a drink
    Sounds good. It's funny, probably different than what most guys would try. And it is showing you are comfortable with yourself. Alpha traits. Remember this is just the opening, the regular stages should follow as you said. Build attraction, dhv, etc. Then if the time is right n-close her.

    Don't ask her to go for a drink, tell her. Take control. It will work provided that you have built the attraction and rapport.

    Good luck man


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