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Thread: Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!

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    Default Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!

    Okay, so I approached and I am trying to game this HB8.5-9 from College. Everything has gone well I believe. Built attraction, cocky/funny, kino, flirting etc. Then she mentioned she was kind of on and off with her bf. It didn't phase me and I proceded. As I was bringing her down a bit (just plain teasing, etc.) she said OMG you are just like my bf. He tells me the same things...I have decent frame control at this point so I didn't acknowledge it. I thought it was a Sh1t test....

    but, is it a Shit test? IOI? IOD? Got me thinking!
    She initiated text after we swapped numbers so she is clearly drawn to me.

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    Default Re: Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!

    OH MY GOD SHE SAID THAT!!!!! JESUS CHRIST MAN I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!! I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE DID THAT!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA HHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! !!!!!!1!!!!11!!!!!!!

    Six exclamations was too much, and I am mocking you for it because, well, because I can. Granted, I took it a little overboard, but whateva, I do what I want! Me ragging on you is your fee for getting your question answered. You could have gotten one of the nicer experts like Batman or Virgil, but you didn't. You got me, and I'm a snarky bastard.

    Now for your question. It might be a sh1t test, but if it is it's a half hearted one. She's probably not fully aware of it herself. Chances are you really are like her boyfriend. To your credit, you did a good job maintaining frame and being nonreactive. But you can always do better.

    What you should have done is teased her back. In this sense, teasing is the same as a neg (not always the case, but this time it is). Now there's the obvious ones "Thats funny, you kind of remind me of my ex", "Sounds like you've got excellent taste in men," or something like that. Now, those are ok, but I wouldn't recommend them, because honestly they don't sound that good to me (I don't really use negs, bite me). A better option would be to just be silly with it. Take it to the extreme.
    "Aww, is someone missing her man? Don't worry little girl, we'll find your boyfriend." Then you pick her up and carry her around for a little bit, calling out her boyfriends name. She's be giggling and squirming and asking you to put her down, and after a minute or two you will and you'll go back to hanging out. This also serves the purpose of implying that she doesn't want to find her boyfriend, she wants to hang with you. And it shows confidence. A lot of confidence. But you know how to maintain frame, so I doubt that'll be an issue for you

    Best of Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!1
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    Default Re: Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!

    HAHA I guess I had it coming!!!!!!!!!!!! That's like 12 for you.

    I like that though, especially the carrying part. I think this would be more effective than the BF destroyer seeing as they are on and off. I really hate it when they bring up the boyfriend lol.

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    Default Re: Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!

    Fuser, sounds like its just a statement. And actually if I were you assume its a positive one. You are an improved version of her ex. Nothing bad, but all good.

    Maybe her ex was into pick up too??

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    Default Re: Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!

    You could have gotten one of the nicer experts like Batman or Virgil, but you didn't. You got me, and I'm a snarky bastard.

    Samesauce.

    Then she mentioned she was kind of on and off with her bf.

    And you mentioned that was f*cking weird.

    She said OMG you are just like my bf. He tells me the same things... I thought it was a Sh1t test....

    but, is it a sh1t test? IOI? IOD?


    None of the above. It's a red flag that she's f*cking crazy. Abort mission!!! Abort!!!!! (<--5 !'s, because I'm not that crazy.)
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    Default Re: Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!


    None of the above. It's a red flag that she's f*cking crazy. Abort mission!!! Abort!!!!! (<--5 !'s, because I'm not that crazy.)

    Cody, what's the reason for her being crazy

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    Default Re: Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!

    Cody, what's the reason for her being crazy

    Congruency, there are better girls out there, that's all.
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    Default Re: Girl says I remind her of hey Boyfriend!!!!!!

    We'll see how this develops but she might be crazy. Too many texts from her in the last 24 hours. Lol maybe Cody was on to something


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