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Thread: Ok, did something today I never have before...

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    Default Ok, did something today I never have before...

    I actually got a girls number who's in my class today . Talked with her a lot and felt I had good repport with her. She didn't have her phone on her , so I used that to bring up the request for the phone number. (She didn't like her phone and I was able to tease her pkayguly a bit about how outdated it was. When I did ask, however, she did seem to be a tad brought out of the moment and after she gave it she did indicate that her work might make it hard to get ahold of her, which was a warning sign of non attraction for me.

    However, I did send her a text so she got my number as well. And she did text back and we had a brief discussion.

    Really, I'm happy with myself because I had the balls to go for the number, but maybe I didn't build enough attraction. She's ok looking, but Im not really atrracted to her and I mainly asked for the number to go out of my comfort zone and I felt we kinda hit it off a bit and I wanted to see if she'd give it to me a responds back. Not sure if ill pursue it, but she was nice to talk to and I'm not taking it too serious.

    I know this isn't a big deal, but I feel I made a good stride today.

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    Default Re: Ok, did something today I never have before...

    Well done bro, it takes guts your first time, it will probs feel less scary next time

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Ok, did something today I never have before...

    Why not go out with her if you have nothing to lose?

    Secure some experience so you can affirm in your head you got some sh1t down....and you got the real experiences to prove it.

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    Default Re: Ok, did something today I never have before...

    Look at it, like a video game. As you advance through the levels you will find yourself gaining more and more confidence. And this is a strange epiphany for me... I have noticed that woman who I am not even attracted too, will also most of the time feel that lack of attraction. It's a congruence thing. She senses, that I am not attracted and she doesn't feel it either. So she is wondering, why the hell am I talking to her. But if I go up to woman that personality and looks I am attracted too, the interaction usually goes very well.

    Keep it up man.

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    Default Re: Ok, did something today I never have before...

    congrats on the n-close, i remember my first n-close after reading pua. i had directly asked the girl for her number on a long bus ride (after creating very little attraction) she rejected me, but then i stopped carring and i just joked around with her for a while and towards the end of the bus ride (we were on a church trip) she asked me if i still wanted her number, and i told her she could give it to me if she wanted to. needless to say i got her number and never texted her but that was almost a year ago and now i am extremely good at getting number closes. btw you might consider checking out this extremely good n-close- http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ber-close.html
    have fun with it i want to see more feild reports like this one. pua is all about getting out of your comfort zone


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